From that day on, that friend who once chatted with you all night has not contacted you for a long time;

From that day on, he is tired of coming to hold you. hand.

Some relationships disappear in time silently.

The paradox of life is that when you look at a familiar face in the blink of an eye, it has become... Extremely unfamiliar.

How can a good relationship slowly fade away?

Perhaps, some feelings that cannot last for years are taken for granted by us.

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Don’t always let one person take the initiative.

If you take the initiative for a long time,

your heart will get tired.

Emotions require response, and more importantly, spiritual "reciprocity".

A person who is used to being passive means that he is used to accepting and waiting.

As a result, he often forgets to give and give back. Take everything for granted,

But when suddenly one day, the wait comes to nothing, you start to be surprised and regretful.

You must know that no one has a natural obligation to treat you well.

In a relationship, don't always let one person take the initiative. If you take the initiative for a long time, your heart will get tired.

If the avatar you are waiting for has not appeared in your circle of friends for a long time,

That means you should take the initiative to open the dialog box and send a message to ask.

There is no need to regard waiting as a competition, and there is no need to regard taking the initiative as humility;

Those who have traveled across mountains and rivers to come and see you when you need them, you know how much they have paid. time and courage.

Please cherish the person who takes the initiative to send messages, make phone calls, and knock on the door;

Everyone has self-esteem, if someone is willing to lower their dignity for you , please give him a response as well. This is polite and respectful.

How many feelings died of heart exhaustion.

Because you have taken the initiative for too long, given too much, and expected too long, you are always ignored and forgotten.

If a person feels that he is responsible for an unappreciated emotion, Sooner or later, he will let go of this burden.

Feelings require interaction. If you take the initiative and I take the initiative, we can get closer;

If you wait and I wait, we will be separated by time for a long time.

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Don’t be perfunctory,

Be sincere to your people

Make friends and talk sincerely.

When a person reaches the age of forty, he will find that the world is full of disturbances and there are many things coming and going around him.

However, there are only a handful of people who can truly be with you. Count, there are hardly 10 people.

A colleague said that she once enthusiastically chatted with a best friend whom she had not seen for a long time on WeChat.

Unexpectedly, after typing a few long lines of words, the other party’s reply was “Yeah. "Yeah, "ah",

I brought a few funny emoticons,

After that, I didn’t reply for a long time. When I saw the message again, it was just a few words: " I’m going to eat first.”

My colleague felt aggrieved. When his best friend fell out of love, he stayed up late to chat with her. I have to hold in every yawn as much as possible, just to worry about my best friend's feelings.

However, I am sincere to you. How many emoticons can you reply to me?

If you don’t want to chat, please tell me clearly. I can close the dialog box, but don’t perfuse me.

No one is stupid. No matter how good a relationship is, it will fade if it is mixed with falsehoods;

No matter how good a relationship is, it will fall apart when bored.

Leaves don’t turn yellow all day long, and people’s hearts don’t get cold all day long.

Disappointed, silent, and left.

In the world of love, many people turn around because they show true affection but are not taken seriously.

So, stop trying to deal with the person who really treats you.

How much warmth can be found in a glass of plain water in times of difficulty; how much blending can be found in a glass of fine wine in times of triumph.

Someone is willing to boil a pot of boiling water for you in the ice and snow. Please treat her well, because if one day, she turns around, she will never come back.

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People who don’t understand you,

Just let go

Writer Liao Yimei said: In this life, when you encounter love, It is not rare to encounter sex, but it is rare to encounter understanding.

In a relationship, the most beautiful words are not "I love you", let alone "I support you", but "I understand you".

I know the source of every joke you make;

I can catch every awkward comment you make;

I know the origin of every little joke you make. I can see my thoughts;

As Lin Xi said: What I am looking for is not someone who can watch movies with me, but someone who can share the experience of watching movies with me.

If one day, you can no longer understand each other’s words, your respective feelings can no longer be understood by each other, and it is difficult for your three views and souls to match, maybe this relationship should Examine it carefully.

When you are with people who understand you, you won’t feel embarrassed if you sit in silence with each other. You don’t have to worry about finding topics, and you don’t have to think about what words to say;

With or without When people who understand you are together, no matter how beautiful the language is or the delicate emotions are, they are still the same as chickens and ducks. vice versa.

We have to admit that because the power of time is so powerful, we are all sculptures under the flying knives of time.

People who once knew each other will become strangers. People whose souls were once attracted to each other will also become incompatible with each other.

If this day really comes, there is no need to regret or feel sad, just wave silently and say goodbye with a smile.

After all, these four words "I know it all" have power regardless of who speaks them.

Leave your true feelings to those who understand you, then life will be meaningful.

A simple and beautiful relationship is that you listen to what I say; I understand everything you say.

When a sincere relationship comes, I welcome it with open arms; when a relationship fades away, I don’t beg to stay.

People who are proactive tend to get tired easily; people who are sincere are easily hurt; people who are in love often get forgotten. If there is such a person around you, please cherish it.

Because there are so many people that you can only meet once in a lifetime. If you miss them, you really can’t go back.

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