Chapter 1: Be more tolerant
One day, I saw this scene in the subway station: a woman wearing ragged clothes accidentally fell and crushed a Rich man, the woman was about to apologize to him, but he said, "My clothes cost more than 1,000 yuan, can you afford it?" After that, he kicked the woman hard. At this time, an uncontrollable anger arose in my heart, and I started to blame the rich man along with the people next to me. In my heart, that person is just a rich man in material terms, but spiritually, he is a poor man! If a person does not have noble moral character, no matter how much money he has, he will be worse than an animal in the eyes of others!
There are other things like this:
In the vegetable market, there were an unusually many people at a vegetable stall, so I went over to take a look out of curiosity. It turned out to be like this: A motorcyclist accidentally knocked over a vegetable stall, and the two people argued for more than an hour. Instead of apologizing, the motorcyclist took action. Not to be outdone, the owner of the vegetable stall punched the motorcyclist in the face. In the end, he even used a knife. In fact, this was originally just a small matter, and the problem could be solved as long as everyone took a step back from each other, but they were just unwilling to do it, and in the end, it made the matter bigger and bigger. It's not worth it even if you have to pay for it with your life!
This kind of thing also happens in school:
After class, the senior students ran out of the classroom like wild horses out of bounds, refusing to give in to each other. Unintentionally, two classmates collided. . They were both furious. The taller one said aggressively: "Why did you hit me?" The shorter one showed no sign of weakness and said, "You hit me first!" The taller one said: "You're looking for a fight!" After that, he started to fight, and the teacher finally came forward to solve the problem. I'm very confused, why should there be a big fight when something can be resolved with just "I'm sorry"? If there could be more tolerance among classmates, and everyone could live in harmony and be tolerant to others, then how good the campus atmosphere would be! Such things can be seen everywhere.
In the gym:
A man cursed at the administrator, but the administrator held a grudge and changed him to a 50-kg dumbbell while he was practicing. The man suffered severe bone atrophy from lifting.
In the swimming pool:
Out of fun, a person played in the water with a person who had not learned to swim. The person who had not learned to swim was very angry and called his father. , beat the man to fractures.
In the bookstore:
A man was playing casually, knocked over the bookcase, and crushed the bookstore administrator. From then on, the administrator never allowed that person to buy books in the bookstore again. People were dissatisfied and spread rumors about the bad work of the bookstore, causing the bookstore's income to drop.
In fact, if people were more tolerant, many bloodshed incidents among women could be avoided. There won't be any injuries, and those two won't fight. If people were more tolerant and polite words like "I'm sorry" and "It's okay" could be used everywhere, people would be more harmonious and society would be more harmonious.
Part 2: The Power of Understanding and Tolerance
Author: Tian Tian "Ling, Ling..." Class has started. The students all sat upright, and Teacher Wang also walked into the classroom. At this time, Teacher Wang was writing on the blackboard, and the students were writing seriously and attentively below.
At this time, Xiaoyu wrote a wrong word. Just as he was borrowing an eraser from Xiaoxin, this scene happened to be seen by Teacher Wang. Teacher Wang thought they were playing tricks, so he called them all up and said angrily:
"What were you doing just now? This is a classroom, not a market. Why are you talking down there? , Making small moves? Your behavior just now has disturbed the classroom discipline. If you continue to do this, please get out!"
Teacher Wang's words were like needles, penetrating Xiao Yu's heart. . Xiaoyu felt very aggrieved. He was about to stand up and argue, but he thought of a famous saying: No one on both sides of the dispute is the winner.
Xiaoyu thought to herself: Teacher Wang wrongly blamed me without knowing the true situation. If I argue with Teacher Wang now, then Teacher Wang will never know the real situation and will always think that I am a disruptor of classroom discipline. Student, besides, if you get into an argument with Teacher Wang, I'm afraid this class will not go well and your time will be wasted. If precious time is wasted, it is equivalent to a waste of life.
Xiaoyu resolutely chose to understand Teacher Wang and adopted a tolerant attitude towards Teacher Wang. Without saying a word, he sat down and began to listen to the class. After class, Xiaoyu walked to Teacher Wang's office.
Xiaoyu thought to herself: "I have to let Teacher Wang understand me, let Teacher Wang know the truth of the matter, and let myself be innocent."
Xiaoyu walked to the door of Teacher Wang's office, He knocked gently on the door and walked into the office. Xiaoyu saw Teacher Wang and calmly said to Teacher Wang: "Teacher Wang, you wrongly blamed us for what happened today. Xiaoxin and I didn't actually do anything. I just borrowed an eraser from Xiaoxin. You shouldn't say that about us. But we also made mistakes, and I should have asked for your permission before borrowing anything. I am here to say 'I'm sorry' to you, and I hope you can give us a clean slate."
Teacher Wang finished listening to this. After thinking for a while, he said to Xiao Xin gently: "You go back first!"
"Ling... ring, ring", class started again. Teacher Wang walked into the classroom and said to everyone: "In class just now, I wrongly blamed two classmates. I shouldn't have said such harsh words. Here I say 'sorry' to them and hope they can forgive me." < /p>
Suddenly, there was warm applause in the classroom, Xiaoyu and Xiaoxin laughed, and Teacher Wang also smiled happily.
Behold, this is the power of understanding.
If you understand others and tolerate others, you will get more friends and make others "turn enemies into friends" with you.
Tolerance and understanding can also make you broad-minded, able to tolerate everything with a tolerant heart, and move others with an understanding heart. Always remember others and be tolerant of others, and happiness will always be by your side.
Chapter 3: I really want to be tolerant
People say that "the prime minister's belly can hold a boat." This sentence is the highest state of tolerance. Throughout the ages, how many wise kings have been able to be called "wise" based on "tolerance", and how many great men have not kept "tolerance" in their hearts? How many examples have taught people to be tolerant, and how many people in our generation have become tolerant? This reminds me of something I feel guilty about.
"626, Li Shimin ascended the throne..." The classroom was full of tension to prepare for the exam. I was also in full swing to prepare for the exam. "Tap-tat" suddenly, I Meng shook the stool. I stared at him, and a rush of heat rushed up. Thinking that a "storm" was coming, I pushed the stool suddenly, "What are you doing? I didn't mess with you!" Yu Meng Said. My face turned red with anger, and I said angrily: "Ouch! Ouch! You still ignored me! You still ignored me! Okay, okay, okay! You didn't mess with me, okay? It's my fault!" Yu Meng I frowned and said: "What's wrong with you! What are you doing! What do you look like? What did I do to make you so angry?" I was already furious: "Hey! Hey! Hey! Don't disturb others if you are not reviewing. Do you still have to review? I don’t want to fail in the exam! It’s really harmful to others!” Yu Meng actually did his signature move and turned his head and said: “A good man doesn’t fight with women! I won’t fight with you. Care!" My brows furrowed into a "Chuan" character. Although I didn't say it with my mouth, I vowed in my heart that I would never talk to him again! I did what I said, but by the end of this semester, I didn't give him a good look.
Afterwards, my heart could not calm down for a long time, and I was always depressed. There is a saying in "Step back, the sea and the sky will be brighter". My heart suddenly felt guilty: Why am I so stingy? This incident made me, who was narrow-minded, create another new enemy for myself. Why worry about it so much? I must learn to be tolerant! Tolerance can make big things into small things, small things into nothing, and make the world more harmonious. Because I have not learned to be tolerant, Let what was originally a good friend become an enemy, so I really want to be tolerant. Tolerance is a bright light that always brings light to people; we all have a light in our hands, let us all use a broad heart to Light it up and fill the world with light!
Part 4: Feel the strange tolerance
In this society, we have always advocated not to use "colored glasses" to look at others. Most people are treated equally. However, there are still some people who are still criticized everywhere. And I, "pretending to be noble", put forward opinions, made inquiries, and begged for help to authorities and experts in some fields on their behalf.
In my opinion, these people are very normal, even more normal than ordinary people, because they are more tolerant than ordinary people. When you endure other people's strange looks and pointing fingers, isn't your tolerance a form of tolerance? The people I want to defend are people from a “different world” than ours.
I have never fully touched their world because they are too easily hurt, and what I want to talk about is the homosexuals in the "other world".
Homosexuality is a disease called sexual perversion by experts and psychological authorities, a disease that harms others and ourselves. They have psychological problems, they need treatment, they are not normal people. This is what those experts instilled in us. In fact, except for their relative rejection of the opposite sex, they are no different from normal people. Moreover, their relationship is based on love. True love in this world is pure and flawless. They can abandon the world, and they can abandon the world's customs and ignore them. Isn't this true love? Can only true love between a man and a woman be called true love? This is nothing more than a preconceived notion. It's just a concept from ancient times to the present, but it's just too old to be easily changed. But some of us don't want to be bound by ancient concepts. I just hope to find true love.
Why can’t we understand them and care for them? Perhaps I am not as trustworthy as the authority, and not as sharp and sharp as Mr. Lu Xun. I just hope to exchange my sincerity for some affirmation. I just want to prove something. I don’t know what I want to prove, I just want to prove it and show others that we shouldn’t ignore that alternative kind of tolerance.
We are very selfish and have never given them the slightest care. What is given is only alienation, only incompatibility with family and society. Why don't we examine ourselves and see if any of them disrespect us? They grant us grace. Are we too contemptuous in comparison?
I just hope that everyone will not look at them as if they are monsters, but also feel the tolerance from them and repay tolerance, just like this...
Article Five: Live in harmony and treat others with tolerance
In traditional Chinese culture, it is impossible without the word "harmony", and there is an endless stream of ideas about "harmony". With harmony, there will be the birth of New China, and there will be the great achievements of the Chinese nation. Harmony with nature, harmony with society, and harmony with life are the noble virtues and fine traditions of the Chinese nation!
After reading the book "Promoting Chinese Virtues and Building a Harmonious School", every page of the book builds a complete harmonious society. It makes me deeply feel: how precious friendship, happiness, honesty and tolerance are! They will dominate human life. From the book, I not only realized the importance of harmony, but also learned how to behave and how to make due contributions to building a harmonious school!
I turned the pages of the book, and suddenly, my eyes fell on an eye-catching title - "Be Tolerant to Others". Isn't this one of the conditions for being a little master? Tolerance is a kind of beauty, a rare beauty. Only when the deep sky withstands the raging thunder and lightning and rainstorms can the wind and sunshine be beautiful and the sky is clear; only when the vast sea tolerates the rampant waves can it become vast and boundless. Andrew? Matthews also said, "One foot crushes the violet, but it leaves the fragrance on the heel. This is tolerance." All these illustrate the beauty of tolerance. I guess that on campus and in society, it is inevitable that there will be disputes and disputes with others. When facing others, we must learn to be tolerant and understanding. It is not worth breaking the friendship over a trivial matter. Someone once said: "If you take a step back, the sky will be brighter", right? Be humble to each other and tolerate each other, leaving a vast world for yourself.
I also thought of a story from here: In the men's horizontal bar final at the 2004 Athens Olympics, the Russian star Nemov in his twenties conquered the world with his difficult moves of continuously flying and grabbing the bar. Everyone in the audience. However, the referee only gave Nemov 9.725 points due to a small mistake when he landed, which aroused great anger from the audience. Nemov, with his broad mind, allowed the game to continue after being interrupted for more than ten minutes. Isn't this the charm of his tolerant treatment of others? After hearing this story, should you also be tolerant to others? Will you give the other person a knowing smile?
This thick book keeps rolling in my mind, and beautiful scenes of harmony with people, harmony with nature, harmony with the collective, and harmony with life always emerge!
Isn’t it? Tolerance to others, honesty and trustworthiness, advocating harmony, getting along with friends, being sincere to others, and loving the motherland...these are the necessary conditions for a harmonious little master! As a young pioneer of the new century, I live on campus and am the little master of the school. Under the care and guidance of the party, I feel more cordial. I must study hard, work hard, and strive to be a "five good" citizen of a harmonious society!
Chapter 6: Tolerance is the bridge of friendship
In our campus full of laughter and laughter, we will have many friends. If we want our friendship to last forever, we must learn to communicate with each other. Tolerance, what is bigger than the ocean is the sky, and what is broader than the sky is the human mind! When we learn tolerance, we will have more friends and our friendship will last forever. Tolerance is the bridge of friendship, which allows us to gain more friends.
Tolerance, it allowed me to find a close friend. In the class, I have many good friends. One of them is a good friend - Wei Huachen. Because our homes are very close, we are inseparable almost every day. We go to school together, travel in the ocean of knowledge together, go home together, and play happily together. Every time we are with her, , I will have endless fun, just like a free bird, flying freely under the blue sky. We talked and laughed together and were very happy. But life can't always be smooth sailing. Once, when we were having breakfast together, I told her about my classmate and I going to play on Saturday. I said I was worried that the teacher would find out.
She seemed to be sarcastically saying, "Then can I tell the teacher and you will get scolded?" I also said confidently: "What are you afraid of? Are you threatening me?" Hua Chen was furious and pointed I shouted loudly: "When did I say I was going to threaten you? Why are you talking nonsense!" Just like that, we broke up unhappy. Then, Hua Chen and some classmates were whispering to each other, and I thought to myself: Huh, Be sure to say bad things about me again. I was so angry that I asked a few friends to tell them what happened. They nodded in agreement. When I walked past her, I looked at her. She seemed to treat me like nothing. I didn’t seem to notice her. When we were in the grocery store, she glared at me and bared her teeth, like enemies. When I came home at noon, I was walking alone on the road with no one to talk to. There was no one to play with, and I felt so lonely and missed my old life. When I came to school in the afternoon, I saw Hua Chen and my anger welled up in my heart again. I walked away angrily from her. I was in school and felt that time was so long. , it seems that several springs and autumns have passed, and the days are so difficult. In the evening, after I finished my homework, I sat on the sofa dumbfounded, thinking: Did my words hurt Hua Chen today? A kind word hurts three winters, but a bad word hurts June cold. My words must be like a spear hurting Hua Chen. Chen's mind. To endure the calm for a while and take a step back to open up the world, should I apologize to Hua Chen and let us get back together? But it was obviously her fault. Who told her to tell the teacher, otherwise nothing would happen. I was puzzled and told my mother about this. My mother said to me seriously: "In a blink of an eye, you are all in fifth grade. If you want to have a close friend, you should understand each other." After hearing this, I felt ashamed. He lowered his head, then picked up the phone and called Hua Chen. "Hey, Hua Chen, I'm sorry about that today. As a good friend, I, uh, shouldn't have said that to you." "Actually, I wasn't right either. I shouldn't have said that. Let's get back together!" "Um. "I felt much more comfortable after I put down the phone. Just like that, our big problems have been reduced to small things. Tolerance has allowed me to build a bridge of friendship again.
In our lives, as long as we have more By being considerate of others, all worries will disappear. Only by learning tolerance can we build the most beautiful and long-lasting bridge of friendship.
Sixth grade of Huanjiang County No. 1 Primary School: Luo Tan