I think people with high emotional intelligence can really have both sides, because they can handle things very well when doing their own things or dealing with certain things, and are recognized by many people. In this case, they will accumulate a lot of connections and friends. When they deal with things later or when they encounter trouble, they can use these relationships to deal with things. In real society, high emotional intelligence is very important to us, even more important than high IQ.

There are many people in society who are not highly educated, but they still have rich property and a wide range of friends because they have high emotional intelligence. No matter how they do things or communicate with others, they are better than us. These people with low emotional intelligence have more methods and strategies, so in ordinary things, they will get more things than us, and at the same time, they can also be remembered by others.

A very real example is that if I stay in school for such a long time, my relationship with teachers and classmates may last three or four years. Some people still don’t talk to each other, but some If a person stays in school for a month, the whole school may know him. This is the difference between high EQ and low EQ. If you encounter something that you don’t know how to do or you are not studying this major, then you have the ability to ask friends from other majors to help you complete it, but if you can’t even name the classmates in the class, then you definitely don’t have it. A friend is here to help you do this. Therefore, we must learn how to get along with others, how to handle some things perfectly, and at the same time, when you encounter troubles and difficulties in the future, you must have the resources and ability to let others help you complete these things.

In this society, it is not enough to just have a high IQ. We only have a lot of knowledge, but no place to develop, so we also need to have high emotional intelligence and a broad range of communication. This will be more conducive to our development.