I have had this experience in college and at work. Now I'm going to talk about how to be isolated by friends and speak ill of them behind their backs.

Isolated at school:

1 First of all, adjust the mentality, stabilize the mood, and actively face the situation of being isolated by classmates;

2. Find out the reasons for isolation, formulate countermeasures according to the specific situation, and get out of the isolation predicament;

3. At school, smile at your classmates, help and care for them.

Try to avoid conflicts with classmates, you need to get on well with them.

Also need the help of parents, specific practices:

1, parents need to understand their children's personality, find out the reasons for being isolated, and help their children get out of the isolation predicament. Parents should first understand the child's personality, whether the child is introverted and doesn't like communication. Or you can ask the teacher about the child's performance in school, whether he likes to play with his classmates, whether he has conflicts with his classmates, find out the reasons for being isolated, and actively help the child out of the predicament.

2. Cultivate children's social skills, encourage him to make more friends and help him overcome his haggard and stingy personality. Sometimes children are isolated at school. It may be that children don't know social experience, make friends, haggle with classmates and be modest. At this time, parents need to help their children overcome their haggling personality and make them open-minded and cheerful. Encourage him to make more friends.

3. Encourage children's self-confidence, attach importance to the cultivation of children's psychological quality, and guide children's interest in making friends. Some children are naturally shy and don't like to communicate with others. At this time, parents need to encourage their children to build self-confidence, cultivate their children's good psychological quality on weekdays, and tell them to be kind, sincere, trustworthy, cheerful, frank and understanding of others.

4. Children need to be encouraged to communicate with classmates more. When you have conflicts with your classmates, you need to solve them in time. Usually, children are encouraged to talk with their classmates and make friends. Conflicts with classmates need to be resolved in time. Children can be encouraged to bravely admit their mistakes and apologize. Let children learn to tolerate others, help classmates at ordinary times, unite classmates and love classmates.