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"People, the higher the quality, the fewer friends". Do you agree with this sentence? Why?
Because a talented elite with high quality can't find the same points (no intersection) with ordinary people in thinking, he or she has no friends.

A: That makes sense.

1, friends need to manage with heart and time.

People who have high standards and strict requirements for themselves often spend their time studying hard.

3. A high-quality person is like the moon, a romantic existence-sometimes as bright as water; Sometimes hazy and elegant; With poetic feelings, I have been practicing on the road of pursuing perfection!

Let's see if the so-called quality is true or not.

Because I sometimes came into contact with some local "people" before, I divided them into three categories. One kind is really quality, generally persuading or guiding others' behavior, and then pretending not to see the worst. One is that you don't have quality but ask others to have quality or sneer at others' "quality" behavior. One kind is people who are equipped with their own characteristics, but the nuances reveal their unforgettable characteristics. They live exquisitely and elegantly, but they are often at the bottom. Often the last kind of people like to say such things.

I have always believed that birds of a feather flock together. People with real quality are surrounded by people with the same quality, so there is no saying that "the higher the quality, the fewer friends". As we all know, "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water"

After re-editing, some people refuted my point of view with high and low music, which is not so much refutation as ridicule. Then I will respond positively. If a person is "high and low", it can only prove that the person who said this doesn't know what is called "friend". If everyone who can talk to you is called a "friend", then the view of "lofty and widowed" is correct, but after you have experienced something, then the friends of "unattainable and widowed" people are also those people, what is the difference from secular people? It's just that they have fewer friends and fewer friends. What's wrong with that? Do you feel comfortable until your "friend" stabs you in the back? If you are right, even if you don't agree with me, I will respect your point of view and try my best to understand it. I dare to satirize others without knowing what I mean, and I don't know where the sense of superiority comes from.

We must understand that there are not many friends who share the same interests, have a similar heart, and have the same spirit.

Hello everyone! I am an inspirational psychology who stresses culture! I'm glad to discuss this problem with you again.

Let me clarify my point first:

"People, the higher the quality, the fewer friends." This sentence is very reasonable.

Let's specifically answer why.

In this society, ordinary people account for the vast majority, and people with extremely high quality and excellent quality are very few. Just like human beings, there are a few people who are born smart, and most of them have average qualifications. Just like the shape of a pyramid, the more people go up, the less people leave. In other words, the higher the quality of people, the fewer people with the same quality as you.

"Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups." It means that similar things get together and people are divided into groups because of their different interests. Therefore, the higher the quality, the fewer like-minded people and fewer friends.

Everyone is equal before the law, but in ancient society, people were divided into three classes. At present, people are still subconsciously influenced by this concept. People in the same grade tend to get together consciously, and there is not much difference between the same grades, so it is easier to find a psychological balance. The higher a person's quality, the higher his level and level, the fewer people there are and the fewer friends there are.

Maybe someone will ask, can't people from different classes be friends?

My view has always been that nothing is absolute, no matter what you say or do, it can't be perfect. Isn't there such a sentence! Leave a line in your work so that we can meet again in the future!

Apart from the above question, can people from different classes become friends? I feel ok, but not too much!

We all know that all men are created equal, but after several years, the remnants of feudal thought still exist, and people will unconsciously draw social classes in their hearts. If you don't believe me, you can pay attention to the lives of people around you. For example, if there are enough people at a dinner party in a big company, you will find a strange phenomenon. All the deputy managers sit together unconsciously, all the middle-level cadres sit together unconsciously, and ordinary comrades with similar lives sit together again.

Although the feudal society has long passed, thousands of years of feudal thoughts have subconsciously influenced us and made us unconsciously have class consciousness.

The higher the quality, the fewer people in his class. Besides, not all the classmates can be friends. Therefore, it makes sense that people with higher quality have fewer friends.

Are you right? Different people have different opinions! Wise men see wisdom!

There are great scholars in small talk, but there is no Ding Bai!

The problem I understand is that the overall quality is high (), and people who were close to ordinary people, such as classmates, such as former colleagues, are gradually alienated. There seems to be no friends!

This phenomenon should be common. With the differentiation of different educational levels or the change of status, the original young people, playmates, classmates and colleagues are constantly divided, and there will be fewer and fewer * * * with the same language. You can't pee in a pot at all, and you can't be bosom friends. This is just a polite meeting!

So, don't think that others don't have friends, just know in your heart that you are not his friend!

Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups; Like attracts like; things of a kind come together, people of a mind fall into the same group; like attracts like; birds of a feather flock together

Not exactly. People with high quality must have the ability to deal with peaceful relations with others and have many friends.

Making friends is related to quality, but it has little to do with it. A hundred rivers are full of tolerance. How many friends a person has depends on the inclusiveness of his thoughts.

I don't agree with this sentence: "The higher a person's quality, the fewer friends he has"!

My opinion: On the contrary, the higher the quality, the more friends!

Why do I say that?

Because the higher the quality, the more discerning he is, knowing that those friends can make friends, those friends can make friends, and those friends cannot make friends.

Furthermore, the higher his quality, the stronger his adaptability to all kinds of friends. Whether you are a bosom friend or a fair-weather friend, he can talk to you.

Our great man once said, "Our friends are all over the world"! From this sentence, we can know that when the river goes from bad to worse, there will be more and more tolerant people and friends …

What is a friend?

Good friends are rich and poor, and all good friends are equal. So when your quality reaches a certain level, you will find that your friends are so amiable. Such an amiable person is your friend!

You said that the higher the quality, the fewer friends.

I think the higher the quality you say, the more people you may not be able to adapt to. If your quality is relatively high, but your friends are getting fewer and fewer, I don't think your quality is getting higher and higher. Instead, it proves that your quality is getting worse and worse.

Why do I say that?

Because you have been divorced from the public, you should know this truth: flowers alone do not make spring! No matter how high your quality is, how high can you go? Then you become a soloist.

Our great man emphasized at the United Nations General Assembly that we have come to seek common ground while reserving differences, not to quarrel, and our friends are all over the world. ...

This friend, you should know: the people, only the people, are the driving force to create world history! You can't think that an overly lofty quality is a good quality. If your lofty quality is not recognized by most people, then your quality is not good. That's a poor quality. ...

When making friends, everyone can't ask others to pursue you just by their own qualities. If you have such an idea, it is wrong, then you can't have friends, because your quality can't be copied.

A high-quality person will not have fewer friends, on the contrary, he will have more and more friends. Because of high-quality people, he will adapt to more people to be his friends.

When you have more and more friends, it proves that your interpersonal relationship is good and your quality is high. Only if your quality is as good as the sky, can you be all-inclusive and have more friends!

It can be seen that the higher the quality, the more friends he has, and even friends all over the world!

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