I met an online spitter and insulted me, saying that my point of view is inherently problematic. I make friends because I like being scolded by others. What is this?
you shouldn't help her, and you shouldn't post the platform. Both actions are redundant. Haha, just kidding. You are a kind and helpful person. This is very good, this is the highlight and glory of your humanity. Undoubtedly, there is nothing wrong with helping others, and it is definitely worthy of recognition and praise. But in some environments today, helping others must have a big heart. That is, before you pay, you must think of this person. If he is not good to you in the future, will you still pay? If the answer is no, then don't pay, or you will be unbalanced if she doesn't treat you well. Then, in the end, my heart was wronged on the platform, and my heart was resentful, which was unnecessary. Many people say that a kind person must have a sharp edge. I think this sentence is very good, but I think that a kind person needs a big pattern, a big heart and great wisdom. Because there are fewer and fewer people who are reasonable and grateful. I'm not saying that you don't have a big pattern and a big heart. It's just that in many cases today, you have higher requirements for kind people and helpful people, that is, can you have a bigger heart, otherwise your contribution will eventually become your pain, not your medal. So in the face of this situation, you only have two ways. One is that I will protect myself first. I am so enthusiastic and sincere to help you, so you give me this set. The second is to improve the realm, think of the worst consequences every time you give help, and then continue to love. I think you are more suitable for the second one, because you are kind, enthusiastic and sincere in nature. Letting you do things against your nature will definitely bring you more pain, and it will be bad for your growth, promotion and becoming a higher-level person. Therefore, I think it is more suitable for you to improve your mind. I am by no means saying that you should continue to help this person, because you have found that she is jealous of you, and even because of this jealousy, there have been some behaviors that hurt you, and you should stay away. I'm just saying that I don't want to erase your inner kindness and enthusiasm because of her. But if you say that I just haven't cultivated to a certain extent, and I'm afraid of being hurt again, then you should transfer this love and enthusiasm to your family and all the people who love you. They must be more lovely than this person. In short, don't close your heart because you meet such a person. As for the online spray, don't worry about it. Many people don't know why and don't see the truth. If you stand on the platform angrily, others will only think that you are very angry. So, just stop the loss in time and give up. There is no need to fight back and retaliate, and there is no need to constantly vent or seek understanding because of anger. That person's jealousy and what she does are the place where she needs to grow up and the topic of her life. You don't need to pay the price for her growth and the topic to continue.