Looking at the children with good popularity in the class, they have the following advantages:
1. Excellent grades and hard work. 2. Optimistic, cheerful and positive. 3. Be honest and steady, and treat others sincerely. 4. Kind, easy-going and easy to talk to.
This is the characteristic of children who are particularly popular and have high prestige in my class. Generally, such children have more friends. In view of this, I give you the following suggestions.
1. Don't take making friends to heart, define your main task and try to be an excellent student. If you want to make friends, you should first put your mind right and not make friends as the main thing. High school is the most important learning stage, because you will face the college entrance examination in three years, which is the moment to decide your future and destiny. So, first of all, you should put learning in the most important position, study hard and try to be a very good child. Anyone is proud to make friends with excellent people. As long as you are excellent, friends will come unexpectedly. The so-called "no one asks you if you are poor in downtown, and rich people in the mountains have distant relatives." It's about people's snobbery now, but it's also a natural reaction of human nature. Therefore, we must first manage ourselves into a "rich mine", work hard, be self-disciplined and be excellent. Your Excellence is the greatest wealth for you to make friends. Don't make friends just to make friends. I always think about how to make friends every day. Too much care about friends, often can't make friends.
2. sunny personality, positive and helpful. Let your energy infect others and infect others with your optimism. I have seen a real example. In a school in Northeast China, a child was ill, but a boy of 65,438+08 had a face of 60 or 70 years old, wrinkled and senile. But all his classmates like him because he is not only a bully, but also very optimistic. Not affected by the disease at all, his classmates, including those beautiful girls, made no secret of their admiration for him and thought he was a superman. He won the hearts of his classmates with his optimism and openness. Therefore, as a high school student, you have to live with energy and positive energy. Be ready to help others. When people encounter difficulties, they should actively help others. As the saying goes, "Germany is not alone, there must be neighbors."
3. Modest, easy-going and tolerant. I once met a child and I liked him very much. His parents are very powerful, educated and powerful. But he never shows off, always modest and easy-going, without hypocrisy and performance. Students will never be divided into three, six and nine grades and treated differently. No personal enemies. You can talk to anyone, you can associate with anyone. Therefore, his circle of play is very large, and there is no one who does not praise him when he comes.
4. Don't be a teacher, don't be eager to express, and listen more. "The big trouble for people is to be a good teacher." I always feel that I know everything thoroughly, I like to express my opinions on everything, I always feel that I am better than others, and I always tell others what to do and educate them. This is a self-righteous performance. Being a good teacher is a great misfortune to make friends. No one of my peers has the right to lecture others, and I always like to comment and tell others what to do, which is particularly annoying. Don't always rush to express your opinions, listen more. When the reporter asked the famous steel king the secret of his success, he conveniently took out a card from his coat pocket, which read: Your success lies in listening. He always reminds himself that he must listen to others' opinions carefully and be an excellent listener, which won him the favor of his friends and made his career a great success.
Actually, making friends is really not that important. The process of making friends is a self-improvement and self-development process. "One person can make the world better", so can making friends. One can make friends all over the world!
Finally, I wish you success in your studies!
I hope to look back in years and hold hands deeply!