The whole family misses you very much, especially after your mother died, and they were distracted by food, clothing, housing, transportation and study. I want to communicate with you on the phone, but no one answers at home, so I have to write to communicate with you. Say a few things I care about.
1: Family affairs. Now it's just you and two fathers. One is that you are busy studying but you can still go home. Your father is busy with work, and then he can go home once every two weeks in other places. He is busy and tired at work. After the operation, his legs hurt and his heels hurt, and it's not easy to earn money. You should be considerate of your father. All the family choruses are done by you. I think your intelligence can do it completely, and you should also take this opportunity to help your father solve problems and relax his mood without loneliness. This is also your father's greatest wish. I don't know if you can achieve it. If you do this, your grandparents and the whole family will trust you. If not, you should do a profound examination and try to express your parents' love from now on.
1: There are only two people at present, you and your father. First, you are busy studying, but you can still go home. Your father is busy at work and is not at home. He can only go home once every two weeks. He is very busy and tired at work. It is not easy to earn money because of leg pain and heel pain after operation. You should be considerate of your father. All the housework depends on you. I think your intelligence can do it completely. It is also your father's greatest wish to make him feel comfortable and not lonely. I don't know if you have done it. If so, grandparents and the whole family are relieved. If not, you should do a profound examination and work hard from now on to show your parents' kindness in raising him.
2. You are a very clever and skilled child, who knows 1:00 well. As soon as you learn it, the whole family agrees and is proud. The first time we went to Australia, you happened to go to high school, and your academic performance was excellent, and you won many awards. We all felt very happy. The second time you went to Australia, you already went to a key university, and the whole family felt very happy. Your father and I transferred your school to 1, saying that you were very competitive and won honor for the whole family. First, we also observed that you had some shortcomings when you went to Australia. It can be said that most of the time outside school is not at home, and there is very little time at home. Even if I go home very late, I still don't live at home. Second, I don't want to be a tragedy at home, and I don't even tidy up my own house. Will I do it? No, I've made up my mind. Maybe I'm lazy, but under your mother's repeated urging, I've done my work and done it well. Didn't I feel it at that time? Your mother is still alive and your grandparents are here. It's different now, only you can do it. Go back and think about it. We went to two Australia, and you never took your grandparents to play once, nor did you sit together and have a good communication. It shows that you are too nervous when you play. Now that you have grown up and your family environment has changed, you should change with the change of time and environment. If you act according to the regulations, the result will be good, otherwise it will be counterproductive. Over time, your father and daughter will also have conflicts, and you should be able to understand.
2. You are a very clever child. You know everything thoroughly. As soon as I learned it, the whole family appreciated it and was very proud. The first time we went to Australia, you happened to be in high school. You have excellent academic performance and won many awards. We are all very happy. The second time I went to Australia, I went to a key university, and the whole family was very happy. Your father and I even visited your school and said that you lived up to expectations and served the whole family.
There are also shortcomings in observing you in Australia twice. First, you are too crazy to play. It can be said that you are basically not at home outside school, and you have little time at home. You even come home late at night, and sometimes you don't live at home. Second, you don't do housework and don't even tidy up your own house. What can you do? No, I rely on my thoughts or lazy words, but under your mother's repeated urging, some work has been done and done well. At that time, it was unforgivable. Your mother is still alive and your grandparents are there, but it's different now. You must do it yourself. Recalling that we went to Australia twice, you didn't take your grandparents to play (don't care) or sit together once. That means you're playing too hard. Now that you have grown up and your family environment has changed, you should change with the change of time and environment and act according to the law. Otherwise, it will be counterproductive. Over time, your father and daughter will have conflicts, you should be able to understand.
3. It's a good thing that you make too many friends, but it's a bad thing to deal with it properly. I think you have enough time to take care of yourself and invite anyone. All the time is always not enough. There is an old saying in China: "There are not many friends, but only 12". Living in society, there is also an important problem to pay attention to, that is, I can influence people, but I am not influenced by them. In other words, if I want to do something, I will ask you to do it for me. If I don't want to do something, I won't go. I can't let people lead me by the nose. If I can do this, time is always mine. I can do whatever I want.
Or your study? Now that you have finished your degree, you are still studying for a second degree. By that time, you will be 28 years old. It should be time, but you have not yet entered the society. You should think about applying what you have learned. Knowledge is not equal to level, and education is not equal to knowledge. Only by creating value through time can you be recognized by society. I hope you can learn to display the fruits productively.
Besides, learning must have lofty aspirations, and there must be lofty goals, so that learning can be interesting. The power of learning an example is endless. There is a benchmark in your heart and a mirror that shines on you all the time. I think your best example is your dear father. Your father studies very hard and is normal. It can be said that he keeps studying, carries his schoolbag with him, and always feels that he doesn't have enough study time wherever he goes. After graduating from college, he can be admitted to graduate school or above after working for two years. He worked for Beijing for one year and passed the exam, but he couldn't accept it. He came back to work and took the exam the next year and passed the exam again. At that time, he chased your family to Beijing. Later, he went abroad to Australia, studied from scratch, and went through customs one after another. So far, he has become an overseas and overseas doctor, a thoracic surgeon and a foreigner to choose his thumb for your father. Your brain is smart, too. 100 100 is used in your study. With your father's hard work, you will get good grades in the future.
It's good that you have made many friends, but it's hard to handle it properly. I don't think you can take care of yourself on this issue. All the time is always enough. There is an old saying in China: "There are not many friends, but only one or two intimate friends". There is another important problem to pay attention to when living in society, that is, I can only control people, not be controlled by them. I won't do what I don't want to do, and I can't be led by the nose. If I can do this, time will always be mine, and I will do whatever I want.
Tell me about your study. Now that you have completed a degree and are still studying for a second degree, you will be 28 years old by then. It's supposed to be fruitful, but you haven't gone to society yet. You should consider applying what you have learned. Knowledge is not equal to level, and education is not equal to knowledge. Only by creating value through time can we get social recognition. I hope you can study effectively.
Tell me a little more. Learning to have ambition means that you have lofty goals and you are interested in learning. Learning has an example, and the power of the example is infinite. It is to have a benchmark in your mind and a mirror to look at yourself at all times. I think your best example is your dear father. Your father studies very hard and is very attentive. It can be said that I can't put down my books. I always feel that I have time to study wherever I go with my schoolbag. After working for more than two years, he was admitted to graduate school in Beijing, but he couldn't accept it. The next year, he came back to work to take the exam and was admitted again. Just settled down in Beijing, then went abroad to Australia, studied medicine from the beginning and passed the customs. Up to now, he has become a doctor studying abroad, an expert in thoracic surgery, and foreigners all give your father a thumbs up. number
Some writing is too colloquial, and I am really slowly revising it, which is very frustrating.