Jia Ling and Hua Chenyu are like many people in life. After all, being friends, I always feel that urging the other party to pay back the money is too direct, which will hurt the feelings of the other party, and it will be difficult to meet each other in the future. Maybe the boat of friendship will turn over.
Chen Jianbin and Ada Choi chose "submit to humiliation".
Endure humiliation means that I am unhappy and complaining, but I won't show it or ask the other party to pay back the money.
This word seems to give the impression that there is no progress. But in the matter of "borrowing money to pay back money", what is weighed in practice is the weight of the borrower in the borrower's mind.
If a friend borrows money and the other party doesn't pay it back, and you can still swallow it, then there may be two situations. The first one has the same mentality as Jia Ling and Hua Chenyu. After all, they still care about friendship and don't want to destroy the relationship because of these things.
Of course, there is another extreme. I really can't help it if the other party doesn't pay back the money. Of course I was torn, but I really didn't move and had to put up with boredom.
Yun-peng Yue, of course, chose the radical answer of "answer blows with blows", but when it comes to details, like Shen Teng and Guan Xiaotong, he chose to let his friends know that he didn't pay back the money.
When this practice is defined as "everyone is a friend of the family", in fact, this practice can only be said to be a kind reminder.
As for * * *' s friend, you inform the other party not to repay. As for whether this friend of * * * will borrow money in the future, it is his own choice. But you informed him. This is your responsibility as a friend.
Yun-peng Yue used the word "answer blows with blows" to describe it because he experienced it personally.
He had a nice friend when he was studying. Later, he borrowed money from him, saying that his mother was ill, and Yun-peng Yue borrowed it immediately. Later, I heard that my child was ill and came to borrow money. Yun-peng Yue borrowed it again.
However, this friend is also talented. Borrow 10000 and pay back 5000; Borrow another 30 thousand, pay back 8 thousand ... endlessly
Finally, Yun-peng Yue realized that the man was lazy and didn't work to earn money. Yun-peng Yue was really angry and gave the other party 1 10,000 yuan as a "breakup fee". Since then, the two have given up and broke up.
Shen Teng used to lend money to his friends. I have no money, so I borrow money from my girlfriend and lend it to others.
In essence, lending money to friends is a process of choosing friends. Moreover, if you choose again, not only will some of them be eliminated, but the rest will be reordered in your mind.
Regarding whether or not to lend money to friends, he has two norms: one is to look at each other's ability to repay, and the other is loyalty.
There is a saying that "saving the poor if you are in emergency", which has become the criterion for many people to judge whether to borrow money.
If a friend is in urgent need of money just because of a certain period of time, and I happen to be in short supply during that period, this period of time can be borrowed. After this point in time, he can return it.
However, if the other party is poor for a long time, it doesn't make much sense to borrow money in this case. If you are holding the mentality of sending money to the other party for a long time and don't want the other party to pay back the money, that's nothing. The problem is that no one can do this for a long time, right? Moreover, when a person knows that someone can help him for a long time, he will not try to change the current poverty situation.
At this time, Jerry asked Jia Ling, if he and George W. Pinkley borrowed money from her, what was their quota, which meant that Jia Ling could lend it to them as much as possible?
Unexpectedly, Jia Ling shouted out four words: lose everything.
Although it is in a variety show, anyone who hears such an answer will be moved!
Although I don't know how deep the friendship between Jia Ling and Jerry is, at this moment, as an audience, everyone was moved, not to mention Jerry and Yun-peng Yue at the scene.
Compared with ordinary people, the income of stars is really high, but their money is also earned through their own efforts. They are the same as ordinary people on the question of whether they can borrow money.