Ceng Zi said: I reflect on the following three things every day: First, have I tried my best to plan things for others? Second, am I honest with my friends? Third, have I ever taught others something that is not certain to be true through my repeated thinking and practice?
Atom said, "Zuo Qiuming is ashamed of his clever words, good manners and full respect, and Qiu is ashamed of it. If you hide grievances and make friends with others, Zuo Qiuming is ashamed and autumn is ashamed. "
Confucius said, "Zuo Qiuming thinks it is shameful to be kind and respectful, and I think it is also shameful. Zuo Qiuming thinks it is shameful for them to hide their resentment in their hearts, but I also feel shameful for being good friends with others on the surface. . "
Former Yan Yuan and Ji. Confucius said, "Why do you say it?" Lutz said, "I wish my horses and chariots were light and well dressed, and I had no regrets with my friends." Yan Yuan said: "I hope that there is no good cut, and I will get it for nothing." Luz said, "I want to hear Zizi's ambition!" Between the lines: "Old people feel secure, friends believe, and few people are pregnant." (Volume V of Industrial Yard)
Yan Yuan and Lu Ji accompanied Confucius. Confucius said, "Why don't everyone talk about their aspirations?" Lutz said: "I am willing to make horses and chariots with my friends. I have nothing to complain about when my clothes are broken." Yan Yuan said: "I am willing not to brag about my own benefits and declare my contribution." Luz asked Confucius, "I hope to hear your ambition from the teacher." Confucius said: "my ambition is to make the elderly live comfortably;" For my peers, let them trust me; For young people, let them turn to me and miss me. "
The original Confucius said, "Lord believes. Don't be afraid of change if you don't make friends worse than yourself. "
Confucius said, "The main thing is loyalty. If you don't make friends who are inferior to yourself, you are not afraid to correct your mistakes."
Confucius said in the original text: "The winner has three friends, and the loser has three friends. Friends are frank, friends forgive and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends will be broken, friends will be soft, friends will be destroyed, and friends will be damaged. "
Confucius said, "There are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make honest friends, honest friends and knowledgeable friends. It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, people who flatter others on the surface, and people who are good at rhetoric. "