Some experiences in life are beyond our control or cannot be changed. And any environment has its pros and cons. They may cause us some trauma, but they will also bring us nutrients for growth.

Associate with people who are better than yourself. Their ideas and mentality will have a great impact on your success! The Jews said: If you live with wolves, you can only learn to howl, and if you come into contact with excellent people, you will be well influenced, influenced by your ears and eyes, and become an excellent person by subtle influences.

Bill Gates once said: Sometimes what determines your destiny in life is the kind of friends you make. There once was a very ordinary farm boy in the United States. He read the stories of some big industrialists in a magazine. He wanted to know the details of the stories and hoped that the industrialists would give some advice to the readers.

A person’s life can be said to be long, but it can also be said to be short. Don't think that if you have many friends, your future will be easy. That is a wrong idea. After all, there are good and bad friends. People often say: Many friends bring many roads, which means that if you make one more friend, you will have one more convenient road; sometimes it may be helpful at critical moments. This is also what we all yearn for, and we always feel that Having multiple friends is a good thing, but it's also selective.

If a child lacks parental companionship, guidance, and care, the child's psychological growth direction and quality will be affected to a certain extent, and this impact is still "closed" and "extreme" Influence. To put it simply, a child who lacks love in his heart needs more affirmation and recognition from the outside world, and if he does not get it, his heart may become "closed".

Associate with people who are better than yourself. Their ideas and mentality will have a great impact on your success! In terms of life, this is a very beneficial thing. Making friends with people who are better than you should be the greatest pleasure in life. In reality, many people are always willing to socialize with people who are worse than themselves, which is indeed psychologically comforting. Because when communicating with friends, you can have a sense of superiority in your heart.

But the things you learn from people who are not as good as yourself are obviously not as much as what you can learn from people who are worse than you. People can get spiritual comfort from friends who are worse than themselves, but they must also get stimulation from good friends to boost their courage.

In short, a successful person relies largely on the help of friends who are better than himself in order to continuously strive for the best.

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