Help children stay away from spending their "friends"

Seven principles of getting along with classmates

1. Don't make friends by flattery. People who always pay special attention to what you have and ask what you want to be friends, whether you want to take your things directly or not.

They don't really like you. When they find you useless, they are likely to alienate you for the first time. Don't please others for fear of losing your "friends". Such friends are not real friends.

2. bravely say "no" to unreasonable demands?

Dare to say "if you are not a person" to unreasonable demands or things beyond principles.

Because you turned down his request.

I won't play with you anymore.

Then don't make such friends.

A true friend will understand you and will not force others to do anything.

If a classmate targets you for no reason, you should bravely comfort yourself and go back to school. Bullying begins with the first weakness.

3. Keep the bottom line of your body.

Stay away from friends who let you smoke and drink or take you to do dangerous things. Close to Zhu Zhechi, close to ink is black.

A good friend will never instigate you even if he can't help you make progress.

Let you do things that don't match your age and stay away from physical contact that makes you uncomfortable, even if he is your good friend.

4. Don't be afraid of losing "friends"

Different circles, there is no need to force everyone to have different ideas. Everyone's opinions can be consulted, but there is no need to blindly obey or fight for a high and low friendship. This is a two-way street. Others have the right not to play with you, and you also have the right to choose not to play with them. You don't need to treat everyone.

Please come into your own life and get along with people with the same frequency.

5. Don't keep secrets for the bad guys.

Everyone has secrets. Mom and Dad are glad that you can share them with your friends. This means that we are thinking and growing, but you must remember.

In case something makes you uncomfortable.

Be sure to say it.

We can't keep secrets for the bad guys.

6. Stay away from people who consume you

The emotions between classmates are contagious, those who complain about everything.

Get along for a long time

You will also become anxious and pessimistic.

And blindly ask

Take your help for granted, stay away from your goodwill and true feelings, and leave it to worthy friends.

Strengthen oneself

Make friends with people with positive energy. It is difficult for people with 50 points to make friends with people with 90 points, because the two sides are not equal. This inequality is reflected in knowledge, quality and three views, that is, "I can't speak."

You must enrich your ability and keep learning in order to attract excellent friends, and butterflies will naturally come.