Introduction to Uncle Qing:

People have to meet too many people in this life. Some people you like but have to let them go, and some people you hate very much. But you can only let him hang around in front of you because of your face. But decades have passed, you have experienced the joys and sorrows of life, and you have seen the ups and downs of life. Your mood is different. You see things clearly, and life It’s time to start subtracting. Meet those bad friends, travel lightly, and truly enjoy your life. When people reach middle age, these four types of people are not worthy of deep friendship. The sooner they are separated, the better!

1. Fair-weather friends

When I was young, I always had some friends who got together just for eating, drinking and having fun. At that time, I felt that this kind of life was the best. However, as I get older, As you grow older, your interest in eating, drinking, and having fun gradually declines, and eating, drinking, and having fun without restraint is extremely harmful to the body, so you should gradually stay away from eating, drinking, and having fun after middle age.

The reason why fair-weather friends are called this is because they will always appear when you are eating, drinking and having fun. When you are in trouble, they will run faster than anyone else. When they are young, they are still brave. You may have the courage to start over again, but people in middle age are often unable to do what they want, so in life it is best to have less contact with those people who will only add insult to injury, and stay away from them as soon as possible.

2. People with bad habits

Bad habits are never just for young people, and people of any age are no exception. Because bad habits themselves take advantage of the weaknesses of human nature to drag those people into the abyss step by step, so don't think that you are used to the ups and downs of the world and think it's nothing. When you fall into it, it will be too late to regret it.

From the beginning, it is the wisest choice to stay away from people with bad habits. Those who are close to red will be red, and those who are close to ink will be black. Maybe you will say that you will control yourself and not touch these things, but if the other party intends to drag you into the water, then you will not be able to prevent it. Many people become addicted to drugs just by going to a KTV. Many people are deceived by their friends and get into pirate ships. Is it because they want to? People's hearts are unpredictable, so stay away from those dangerous factors as soon as possible.

3. Ambiguous relationships with the opposite sex

The relationship between men and women is the most invisible. Maybe you think it is just an ambiguous partner. What’s the big deal? However, this ambiguous person may completely ruin your life. When you reach middle age, your life is stable, your children have grown up, and the relationship between husband and wife has gradually improved. At this time, an ambiguous person can ruin all of this for you. It's not easy for anyone along the way, and we finally hope for a happy ending. Why ask for trouble and destroy all happiness for the sake of temporary happiness?

4. People who don’t want to see you well

Those who don’t want to see you well will naturally not wish you well in the future and contribute to your success. Therefore, there are such people around you People are not to be desired. You may think it's okay if they say a few sarcastic words when you are doing well, but if you encounter some trouble, they may add insult to injury and trick you.

Uncle Qing’s conclusion:

After middle age, it is no longer necessary to keep these four kinds of friends, which is a waste of money and nerves! A person must keep his eyes open when it comes to making friends in his life, and be optimistic before making friends. If you find that this friend is not worth making, you should stop your losses immediately. After all, life is not easy for anyone, so why bother yourself.