There are two reasons for not wanting to take the initiative: one is inferiority complex, and the other is conceit.

If you feel inferior, you must be inferior to each other in some aspects, then you can take this as a driving force, work hard to overcome it, and maybe you will achieve unimaginable outstanding achievements, and your self-confidence will increase with it.

But conceit is often a mistake. Many examples show that toads can always eat swan meat if they want it! People, both men and women, under their own superior conditions, can't help showing a kind of arrogance and arrogance. You won't "condescend" to take the initiative, and people with the same conditions and personality are hard to get close to you.

what kind of person are you?