When I was in college, I basically joined four clubs as a freshman. At the beginning of these societies, there is bound to be a dinner party for newcomers, a dinner party in the middle of the semester and a dinner party at the end of the semester. So there will be three dinners in one semester, basically once a month.
And this is just a club, plus four other clubs, which basically organize dinners around these time points. There are basically three or four meals a month. If we go every time, it will not only waste time, but also waste our money. Basically, you have to spend 100 yuan for a meal, and then refund more and make up less. You are unhappy and spend so much money. Actually,
So, in fact, we just need to choose some clubs that we particularly like. People in this club are familiar with each other. We can go out for dinner and chat like good friends, while some unfamiliar clubs can give up these dinners.