It is very important to make friends. To see what kind of person a person is, we only need to look at the friends around him. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. You live with a lame, you will learn a limp. What kind of people you play with, you will become what kind. If he is a heinous person, you get very close to him, and over time you will become a heinous person.
only with excellent people can you stand out. It doesn't matter who you are, but who you are with! In real life, who you are with is really important, which may even change your future and determine the success or failure of your life. People who really mix well understand this truth better, so people who really mix well will pay great attention to the quality of their circle of friends. People who really mix well will not make these two or three kinds of friends.
1 people who are interested in themselves but have no benefits at all
There are many interests and rights in social interaction. A person who mixes well is either rich or powerful. Such a person will be favored by many people, and many people will try their best to make friends with them and curry favor with them. However, just because of power and money, two people are often just brothers on the surface, and they are not regarded as brothers behind their backs, but at most they are acquaintances. The human feelings are warm and cold, and you will know that when you go bankrupt, when you have no right and no money, all these so-called friends will leave themselves. For such people, we must never be intimate, just do not offend them.
2 Bad people
People who really mix well are mostly powerful people in their circles. There are all kinds of people here, some are the rich second generation and the official second generation, who are born with money, others are lazy, and people from all walks of life have them. You live with a lame, you will learn a limp. This sentence is very reasonable. According to physics, molecules are constantly moving. If two people get too close together, they will influence and blend with each other for a long time. In the end, they may acquire the same bad habits and be influenced by their friends sooner or later. Therefore, people who really mix well will try their best not to associate with these dishonest people, and will keep their distance from them to prevent them from being biased and influenced by their bad habits.
The price of a straw tied to Chinese cabbage is the price of cabbage, while the price of meat tied to it is the price of meat, which shows that it is very important to make friends and circle.
3 people who complain about life
Around our lives, many people sigh when faced with a little setback in life, thinking that God is unfair to them, and always feel that God has closed a door for themselves without opening a window for them. Although there are indeed many unsatisfactory places in life, a person should always have a positive heart to face. There are ups and downs in the moon, and people have joys and sorrows. But we can't be pessimistic all the time. We have to learn to adjust our mentality. We can't change the facts, but we can change our mentality. People with good mentality are everyday? Sunny day? People with bad mentality are every day? Thunderstorm? . Living in a thunderstorm every day, how can he be happy enough? A truly well-mixed person, no matter what situation he is in, will make his life full and meaningful. No matter how much life is directed at them, they always have a positive attitude in their hearts to face all this. Therefore, a really good person will not make friends with such a negative person.