First, judging from the photo content, the identity of "Shanghai shop assistant" is mostly false.

Shanghainese are narcissistic, and even the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen are a little dismissive. As a second-tier city, Zhuhai may not last.

Girls take selfies and wear headphones. Shanghai company should be welcomed by Shanghai culture, and wearing headphones at work is not in line with Shanghai cultural tradition.

The cabinets in the background, the shape of windows, the penetrating glare and the height of the room all indicate that the girl's room should not be a commercial building, but a bungalow. ...

There seems to be a head and yellow clothes in the background, and the distance is not far, indicating that this working environment is very crowded.

To sum up, the identity of "Shanghai clerk" is a bit unreliable. You can combine the content of the chat or ask her where she works to make a final judgment.

Second, knowing you for a few days and offering you expensive gifts are beyond the usual practice of ordinary girls. Either, she is a "female man" who especially dares to say and do, or she has ulterior motives-at least, you have been "touched".

Third, if a long-distance relationship is in a hurry to get married, there is no need to make a quick decision about the whole life. The procedure and process of acquaintance should be indispensable-meet a real person, learn about her personality, knowledge and hobbies, and see if you have the same hobbies; Contact her friends and family, see her taste in making friends and the environment where she grew up, get to know her from the side, and so on. Don't just believe in the bright side. People can't see or understand how to decide, lend her money for emergencies, give gifts and so on. One is to sail carefully for thousands of years, and the other is that you will always be yours. If you can't run, don't worry.

I wish you all the best in love.