Understand your child's needs and speak in a way you like. Some parents think that chatting is education and want to educate their children anytime and anywhere. Chatting always teaches children from high to low, and they communicate in languages that children don't like to hear. It is natural for parents to educate their children, but the way of education is not only high-level, talkative and dogmatic. Gentle, friendly and equal communication can also produce good educational effects. Some parents think that children are unwilling to have intimate conversations with themselves because they don't understand their needs. These parents don't care what method and language their children want to communicate with. They always communicate in the way they think is "right". After a long time, children certainly don't want to talk to such parents. ?

Understand children's interests and talk around topics that children are interested in. As a parent, it must be different from the children's concerns and interests. Parents think that what they are interested in is what their children are interested in, and what they are interested in is what their children require. Don't talk nonsense The second generation has different views on the world and different emphases, so some children whose parents find it interesting may find it boring. Children talk about topics, parents are meaningless, and there is no help in learning. For a long time, children can't be sure whether they want to tell their parents what they are interested in or have an intimate conversation with their parents. Therefore, parents must have time and patience to understand the places that children are interested in and why the things and contents they like will bring them happiness and produce * * *. In this way, conversations with children will produce * * * sounds, and there will be more * * * sounds in the same language. On the other hand, if parents enter the world that children are interested in and care about the world that children are interested in, they will naturally accept topics that parents find interesting, right?

Many children don't want to talk to their parents or listen to them, but they can't understand what their parents say. For adults, they sometimes find it easy; There is a truth. They think it's obvious, but children's thinking is different from that of adults. What you think is easy is not necessarily there. They may not understand. So sometimes parents will return home in triumph and be very happy. But as a child, he didn't enter your world. I don't know what you are trying to say. Why is the negotiation effective? Why can you become close? An important way for parents to establish close relationship with their children is to communicate in a way that children can understand, understand and execute, rather than self-righteous, arrogant and dogmatic communication. Through dialogue and communication like friends, communication will become closer and closer, thus bringing parents and children closer. Not every conversation is about pushing each other away, pushing each other away from feelings.