I always feel that I can find something better, and I am often dissatisfied.
I've seen and heard a lot of past events. At first, when I was with my boyfriend/girlfriend, "I like you very much", "You are my darling", "You are my world" and "With you, there is no room for others in my heart" ... But after a period of time, it seems that I am no longer satisfied with this, so I might as well drag my feet and break up with the confidence to meet a better self.
Some people think that other people's little brothers and sisters are so beautiful. Once compared, they found that their objects were almost the same. Some people think that little brother and little sister are so kind to them, romantic, considerate and humorous, and suddenly lose heart when they look back at the object, and so on. Such things have long been commonplace. "I just want to talk to you," wrote. "Who said that love was purest when you were young? I have never been more vain than then. All the happiness can't help but take it out to bask in the sun. Looking at the envious eyes of others, I feel very beautiful and sweet. "
As far as I know, under normal circumstances, people with such unsatisfied ideas will try their best to find fault with each other, either ignoring each other, or finding fault with everything they do, or finding something to do, and they must break up anyway.
I read a sentence before, which probably means that timing is very important. When he wants to settle down, you are the right person. When he is curious about the outside world, you can only be a passer-by. I am still at the age of being curious about the outside world. I have unlimited energy and fantasize about all kinds of beautiful things. Let me calm down and protect a person. I can't do it. So it's better not to do it than to hurt people in the end.
Falling in love is an extra expense.
Dating, surprise, romance and so on are all inevitable in love. We should ensure a stable date or meeting to maintain our relationship, occasionally create surprises to promote emotional warming, buy gifts to apologize for doing something wrong, and so on. Looking at the living expenses given by my parents every month, I can live well alone, but with the expenses of one person, how can I knock my abacus? Either I am frugal, or there is no romance, no surprises, no gifts. I just want to wait for economic independence, so that I can support myself and fall in love; With bread, I can choose love calmly.
The little friends around you will gradually alienate.
When you start dating, you should set aside a considerable amount of time with your partner, so you should refuse the invitation of some friends who seem casual. Over time, your little friend won't ask you out. But gay friends are at least your friends. After breaking up, they will still come back to them.
Opposite sex couples are different. A better boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't talk, but she will mind. Therefore, you can't eat snacks alone, have classes together, go to the video game market, the library and so on with your friends of the opposite sex, even if your relationship is iron and pure. But to make matters worse, your boyfriend/girlfriend has to look at you with her own eyes and delete friends of the opposite sex from your list …
I like my friends. I like to get together with them after dinner. I like to go to the streets to find food with them. I like to roll on the lawn and talk freely with them on sunny days. I don't want to fall in love with someone who dominates my world and wants to control my life.
Falling in love is easy to get hurt.
When making friends, we can get along well and we will get along well. There will be conflicts occasionally, so there is no need to haggle over every ounce. It'll be all right in a minute. It's really a disagreement and we can't play together. Falling in love is not that simple. Sometimes it's not because the three views fit, but because you look good, and then all your shortcomings are ignored.
Once the two sides become lovers, they will silently feel what the other side should be like. When a girl is sick at night, her boyfriend should come to her with medicine instead of letting her drink more hot water. Girls should prepare for two hours before dating, and boyfriends should wait for her calmly. There should be a very simple reason for all this-because you love me. If the other party doesn't perform as expected, it will be very unpleasant. You don't care about me anymore. You don't love me as much as before. You don't tolerate me anymore.
It seems that as long as people are in love, they are ecstatic. As long as the other person makes a simple move or a word or two, it will easily affect your mood. I can't live my life as if nothing had happened, because you haven't returned my messages all day. When you are happy, I can be fine; When you are unhappy, you make me feel bad. You can try not to bring me emotions, but if I try not to be influenced by your emotions, how can I not be influenced by such things as "Do you care about me"? Questions like that. I'm tired of thinking about it, and I don't know how easy it is to live a casual single life.
You may just like me in makeup.
Nowadays, the development of makeup can be said to be very jaw-dropping, and high-gloss shadow double eyelids are even more common. Some things are beyond the imagination of straight men, such as drawing collarbone, hairline and Dot mole ... Although I don't have such superb skills, I can really make myself look at it from the beginning.
Before we fall in love, we can't get through removing makeup, because we really can't bear to test our fragile love with such a serious thing. Until we broke up, the other party had never seen my true face. Sometimes when I think about it, I make the other person think that my ex-girlfriend is not ugly. This is my last kindness.
To a large extent, not wanting to fall in love also stems from your lack of confidence. Some people say that in front of the person you like, you will feel inferior. There is a saying in The Second Sex, "One day, a woman may be able to love with her strength, not her weakness, not to escape from herself, but to find herself, not to abandon herself, but to affirm herself. At that time, love will be the source of life for her, just like for him, not a fatal danger. " Constantly strive to improve yourself and make yourself like a permanent lighthouse. Imagine if one day, you meet someone who wants to be with him, at least you have enough capital and confidence to pursue and pursue your long-term future.
Breaking up is terrible. I don't even want to start over.
I don't know whether this is pessimism or reality. Once a relationship begins, my first thought is how to break up, whether it's myself or people around me. Because the ratio from love to marriage is too small. We will face many practical problems, not just that two people can be together forever simply by loving each other. For example, I am in college now, and I don't know which city I will go to in the future. I don't know whether to continue my studies after graduation, or to enter the job, or I can't find a job and rely on my parents to support me at home. Still at a loss about the future. I don't even know what to do in the future.
Some people have romance in their hearts. They love to say "the future", but I can't say what they want for a long time, and I can't give those empty promises. But what can I say when I am depressed? In the end, I just swallowed my anger and comforted myself to live every day well.
Lovers at the End of Time says, "If you can't grow old together, love will only break your heart." I don't know how long I can love someone. There are variables every day, and we have to face them sooner or later. I just think that every breakup is a permanent scar. It is possible that with the passage of time, you forget the pain and the existence of scars, but one day you accidentally see that those pains have come back to your mind. The deeper you love, the deeper the scar after breaking up. I used to like it, which makes this scar very real. I'm really scared.
It's good to be single. I can chat with whoever I want, eat with whoever I want, drink if I want, and stay up late if I want. Your feelings don't have to be attached to another person, you don't have to care about someone's feelings all the time, and you won't affect your emotions because of someone's words and deeds.
On weekends, you can wake up naturally, then wake up your roommate with instant noodles, and spend an afternoon lazily in the bedroom in pajamas, watching plays and chatting. When I am full of energy in the evening, I go out for dinner and snack with my roommates, read books in a tea shop, take a walk on the playground, and sneak a look at my little brother who plays basketball if he says anything indecent. Don't worry about someone leaving a message on your mobile phone. You don't have to hold your mobile phone every day, or even wash your hair every day, and meet each other every day.
Speaking of playing games, I don't play games; Speaking of shopping, many boys don't like shopping; Speaking of losing weight, where there is no food on a date, you just want to eat a plate of vegetable salad, and your boyfriend wants you to eat more. He whispered that you don't need to lose weight. On the surface, you agree, but you are afraid that you will be rejected if you get fat. Unlike my single sisters, I want to eat hot pot. Let's go! Say you want to drink milk tea, buy it! Say you want to lose weight, ok! Together! We can live independently and freely, participate enthusiastically in every decision, and not be bound by so-called love. We are single.
After all, I'm actually just a girl who just started to get in touch with love. I'm injured, and I'm on high alert for falling in love. These are my complaints about falling in love. People in love don't have to look at these to think about your love. After all, the reason is dead and people are alive. People with more mature minds and more experience, I also accept some guidance and suggestions you can give me.
I haven't learned how to take responsibility for a love, and I can't always keep a balance between giving and taking. I hope the years will continue to hone me and make me sunny, confident and loving.
I still believe in love. Because love sneaked into my dream, when I opened my eyes, the sun filled the whole room. I believe that when I am strong enough, there will be a person as bright as the sun, so that all my reasons are no longer reasons.