In fact, you are a very kind person, but you are a little deliberate when you are kind to others, that is to say, you are not being kind to others, but you think it is right to be kind to others after thinking, and then you do it. So I always feel that I will be alert when I am not really myself in front of others. There are others to say hello. I think another thing is that you always do what others say and never put forward your real ideas. And what you did was a loner. Do you sometimes forget others when they are with you and just do what you should do without thinking about others? In fact, the practice is very simple, that is, let go of your worries, be yourself, and ask yourself to participate in other people's activities and participate in more activities. For example, if several people want to go there to play, you should also participate, and don't leave yourself alone. The more contact you have with others, the more people will know you, chat with you and become friends. Otherwise, others will know that you are all right, and others will be lonely instead. You can't be friends like this. It's very useful for you to get in touch with others more. Another point is that when you are in contact with others, you should pay more attention to how others get along with others and how to do things better, and then learn to do it yourself. This is very useful. Another point is how to integrate into the activities of others. You must find a breakthrough. In the past, my practice was that several people in my class were easy to get along with and easy to get along with. So let yourself play with them more. Slowly, you will probably chat and play with others next to her. Gradually, others will get used to your existence, play with you and make friends with you. Hehe, this is my previous experience, and I hope I can help you.