For example, Xiaomei found that her boyfriend and a second-generation sister were very close some time ago, and they often exchanged cartoons on WeChat, which made Xiaomei very uneasy and a little embarrassed, but it was hard to say. After all, we just make friends normally, and it will be too stingy if we interfere rudely.

Her boyfriend is a fan of Marvel comics and likes to pay attention to everything in Marvel comics in his spare time. Therefore, Xiaomei couldn't put it down, and bought a limited edition Marvel comic peripheral products for her boyfriend on his birthday.

Sure enough, after receiving the gift, my boyfriend's eyes shone with surprise and he was happy for several days. He also took Xiaomei to watch the Transformers movie. Gradually Xiaomei became a comic book fan. Later, whenever there was something about comics, her boyfriend would share it with Xiaomei for the first time. Slowly, there is no such thing as a second-time girl.

Psychologists have found that in love, we all subconsciously look for people similar to ourselves. The more people with the same background, interests and tastes, the more they can attract each other and have a sense of intimacy. Therefore, when the boyfriend in the above example found out that Xiaomei loved Marvel comics as much as herself, Xiaomei became his first ally with the deepening of communication, and he gradually alienated his second sister.

Couples with the same interests and hobbies can participate in each other's lives more deeply, and the stronger their attraction is, which undoubtedly adds insurance to their love.

On the contrary, if the intersection of two people's lives is too small to talk about together, then it is difficult for two people to go on in a long life!

Therefore, whether you like animation, playing games, or reading and fitness, you are very lucky if you can find someone who has the same hobbies as you. If your partner doesn't have the same hobbies, please try to cultivate your hobbies, and be mentally suitable, which is one of the fundamentals of your lasting and stable relationship.