When you get along with people in society, you will meet all kinds of people. I think generally, the people you meet will be friendly people who can distinguish right from wrong. You will naturally be grateful for the good things and the bad things. They will also give criticism; and everyone should have their own personality. Naturally, some will get along and some will not. But there has been more than one person around me who was kind to everyone and was given a "good guy card". In fact, she is quite grateful when she is nice to herself and has met such a nice person; but if she is so nice to those who don't need to be so nice to her, others will have a different evaluation.

First of all, we need to analyze why they are so nice to everyone and have different evaluations. Some people are nice to everyone and never want to quarrel when others feel sorry for them. Instead, they turn around and bend down to tell others that it’s okay. If she is the kind of person who is naturally submissive and cowardly, as a bystander, see Seeing this kind of scene is still a bit difficult to accept, so why should she do this?

I have always felt that everyone should have their own unique character and have their own bottom line and principles. Before touching their own bottom line and principles, they can easily forgive others or still maintain a friendly attitude. Others will think that this person is good at being a good person and is worthy of close friendship with her; but the scary thing is that without her own principles, others can break her own bottom line and bully her again and again. I think this kind of people will say you are a good person when asked in person, but in the bottom of their hearts, they scold you countless times for being stupid, because in fact, there is really no need to do this.

Some people are nice to everyone and flatter everyone. They think that there are benefits to be gained but it is okay to suffer some losses, so they force themselves to live like another person. I have seen a very powerful college classmate who is very nice to the rich and powerful. As long as you have the conditions, you can do whatever you want. If you can achieve it, I will do it for you immediately, and if you cannot achieve it, I will try my best to impress you. However, he began to notice that people around her looked at her strangely, so she began to be nice to everyone in order to create a particularly easy-going person.

But its ultimate purpose is to hide that in fact, it is just to curry favor with those who are useful to them. In order to avoid gossip, it is good for everyone. In my opinion, such people are pathetic and hateful. Why should you rely on others in your best years? Live a free and easy life. There are people you like and love, and there are also people you hate who can boldly show your dissatisfaction. Isn't it more important? Is it admirable?

Of course, what I admire most is the following kind of people. They are good to everyone, but they just think everyone should be treated fairly and at least give each other a chance to get along fairly. Even if they don't like it, they won't want to hurt you, but they are the kind of people who still have their own ideas. They are kind to others from the bottom of their hearts, because they feel that life is already so difficult, why should people make things difficult for others? Everyone gets along well with each other. I really like this kind of person from beginning to end, and she deserves to be loved.

There are actually categories of people who are good to everyone. Only by recognizing them from the bottom of our hearts will we often evaluate their behavior fairly from the perspective of others. I hope that each of us will encounter the same kind of people. The kind of person who sympathizes with the many disasters in the world and wants to be kind to others from the bottom of his heart.