We are too small, we are too incompetent, we are not saviors, and we can't save the world. Life is like a boat, it can't carry too much material desires and vanity. If you want it to reach the other shore smoothly and not run aground halfway, you must go into battle lightly and get what you need. "The green hills are not old, the snow is white, the green water is carefree, and the wind is wrinkled." Fame and power are foreign things, from which we get nothing but vanity.

2. "I can do it"

"I was born to be useful," said the feast master. The real perfection of man lies not in what he has, but in what he is. No one can bind us, only ourselves. So we must know ourselves and fully liberate ourselves.

Second, be cautious about "making friends"

People often say that a thousand dollars is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find. Indeed, a friend is the best friend. It is very rare to care about and love you, comfort you when you are in trouble, bless you when you are successful, remind you when you are carried away, and encourage you when you are discouraged. A good friend can stop your life, let you realize the richness of emotions and the colorful life, be more energetic and affirm the value of life.

Some friends, like the shade of trees in summer, will bring you coolness when you are hot and painful; Some friends, like the fire in winter, will bring you infinite warmth when your heart is cooled by the biting wind and rain; Some friends, like a bitter medicine, can cure the "stubborn disease" that you can't swallow; Some friends are like a bright mirror when you are hiding.

Making friends is an important social activity that runs through anyone's life. This is an easy topic and sometimes a serious concept. There is a theory of "one, ten, hundred, thousand, ten thousand" in making friends, that is, the maximum number of people who can meet each other in the vast sea of people is "ten thousand", the maximum number of people who can remember names is "one thousand", the maximum number of people who can be polite is "one hundred", the maximum number of people who can talk about everything is "ten", and the maximum number of people who can accompany them to death is "one". In life, there are only ten intimate friends who can truly treat each other with sincerity and share weal and woe, which shows the importance of making friends. Some people are good at making friends to achieve life, while others are not good at making friends to stir life. It can be seen that making friends is a science and an art, so how can we make friends successfully? I think we should grasp two criteria, namely, setting principles and making choices.