Accept the fact that you are no longer lovers and he is no longer yours. Many times in the face of breaking up, both of them are related to leaving from the front. Physically and psychologically, we can't accept that the body doesn't want to admit it. Of course, we don't want to accept the pathology of who left you the equipment. As a result, because we don't talk about him ourselves, you also passed the method. Why do you think you can recover, even some people? Life is threatening him, you have to go again, or I'll kill myself. Who told you that such an important link has been over, you will still comfort him, and he doesn't want to do this at all. If you tell yourself that you won't come out, you have to learn to accept that you are slowly leaving your biggest opponent there, and that is to get used to living alone now.