When you meet a friend who really understands each other, revealing your heart has become a luxury in the adult world. There can be thousands of people in the WeChat list, but only one or two can really talk to each other. Perhaps for everyone, some friends will be with you all your life, and some friends will be left behind after a certain stage of life.
Every intimate relationship needs our active maintenance, but our time for social interaction is always limited. Therefore, the acquisition of friendship is not as simple and easy as imagined. The strength of interpersonal relationships is directly related to the amount of time and energy we give them.
Introverts are less willing to take the risk of making friends, and prefer to make fewer friends, but they can also spend more time on everyone, which may lead to closer friendship. Extroverts, on the other hand, are more confident socially, so they prefer to have more friends.
For modern people who are used to loneliness, close friendship is also a "scarce item". Some friends will accompany you through every important stage of your life; Although some are not often contacted, they will always appear when needed. The number may be small, but it can bring the emotional support you need.
With the growth of age, the original stable social relations can be broken by entering a higher school and graduating, working, moving, changing the city where you live, and so on. Meet new people, separate, and keep saying goodbye or reunion with old friends. We have friends who never give up, and we will also experience the moment of being cured by strangers. True friends may not need so many, but as long as there are those few people, they feel at ease and warm.