To tell the truth, in fact, when many people are living better than you, you are not congratulated but jealous. You won't be happy because others are doing well, on the contrary, you will be unhappy because others are doing well.
Secondly, people are social and political animals, and we can't really get rid of order and social life, especially young people. Why do I care about young people? Because I can't really be independent (independence here refers to material things), my guess is that it is because I can't be independent that I will live in reality, but I feel strongly dissatisfied with reality and want to escape but I can't escape. In fact, the core of the solution is to change our minds. Since you can't escape and change, you can only accept it. As the saying goes, the prime minister can punt in his stomach. Acceptance is also a kind of generosity. We generously accept some people and things we don't like, sometimes it's not our inner acceptance, maybe it's a kind of spiritual indifference. We can also disguise ourselves, sometimes it may be true. I'm not talking about indifference, but accumulation. Only when we are truly independent can we talk about our ideal world.
Finally, I believe that if you love others, others will love you. Only by freely believing in love can you be loved. Nowadays, people just change their social forms, and the social frequency is higher than in the past. (1) Speaking of social activities, some people think that social activities simply mean getting together to sing and dance. If we get to know each other in this way, I think the understanding of social activities is too narrow. In fact, social activities are diverse and should be understood from a greater breadth and depth. For example, what we call "today's headlines", everyone pays attention to each other, spits at each other, praises each other and so on. Is actually a social activity. For another example, we play games, shop, make friends, listen to music, watch movies, video chat and so on, which are very typical social activities. Pure physical social activities are gone forever. (2) Entity and virtuality are only different in form, and we should not completely separate the social activities of these entities from the virtual ones. This year, due to the COVID-19 epidemic, many entities' social activities were banned or restricted. It can be said that this is a special policy in a special period. After the epidemic is completely over, I believe that physical social activities will resume soon. With the rapid development of the Internet, the virtual network world has made unprecedented progress. Staying indoors is regarded as a creed by some young people, and everything depends on the internet. The richness of virtual social activities has indeed had a great impact on physical social activities. In particular, the phenomenon that the younger generation stays indoors is gradually increasing, and this trend is still spreading further. Changes in young people's social activities will weaken their ability to participate in physical social activities. (3) Today, what we have to do is to vigorously promote the synchronous development of physical social activities and virtual social activities. In particular, it is necessary to guide young people to participate in beneficial sports social activities and enrich their amateur cultural life. This is a question that we need to think about.