A Shenzhen man suspected that his wife was cheating on her, so he took out a kitchen knife and put it on the woman’s neck. The police came, took his wife as a hostage, and confronted the police. Not long ago, I saw a news story about a man who suspected that his wife was having an affair with his cousin, so he raped his cousin to comfort him. Of course, not all men will join the fight when their wives are suspected of cheating. More often, they will just stand by and pretend to be deaf. However, as long as a man is unbearable, his wife will cheat on him, which will cause a devastating blow to the man. Men are more afraid of being cuckolded than women, and as long as they have that tendency, they can't stand it. This is the natural domineering and possessive nature of men.

Men are domineering, this is the nature of male animals. All animals have a sense of appetite protection, and exceeding the limit will be regarded as provocation. The same goes for men, they protect their things like wolf cubs, whether they are people or things. Therefore, men have a strong desire to repulse their wives and cannot stand the smell of other men on their wives. Once his wife cheats, the husband's nerves will be tense, his behavior will be extreme, or he will become decadent. A man's domineering performance is also reflected in his wife's friends of the opposite sex - he has a natural hostility towards his wife's friends of the opposite sex. Whether it is a classmate, a friend, a colleague, or even a relative, as long as you get along with your wife too many times and your wife mentions it too many times, you will be put on the ‘blacklist’. Once the wife gets along with these people on the 'blacklist', she will become restless and depressed, which is called 'cuckold phobia'. She doubted them for a long time, became paranoid, and eventually acted out. A man who wanted to rape his cousin because he suspected that his wife was having an affair with her.

Men are very controlling because they have a kind of 'insecurity' hidden in their hearts. A man who goes on a business trip or stays overnight doesn't feel anything. However, if his wife is like this, a man will suspect his wife's "ulterior motives" and become restless. Because his wife is not under his control, he subconsciously wonders if there will be an affair while his wife is away. Studies have shown that men's trust in women is much lower than women's trust in men, even though women are mostly loyal and men are naturally romantic. Men come home late, stay overnight, and often go on business trips. They will reveal several things to women, but if women do this, men will pursue them, and even deliberately cynicize and become suspicious. When men don't answer women's calls, they often say they are busy at work. A woman who doesn't answer her man's phone calls feels guilty. Men who come home late are treated to a treat. The woman who came home late suspected that she had an appointment outside. The man who buys new clothes needs a job. A woman who buys new clothes will suspect that her wife is a cuckold to please an adulterer if there are any clues. He has an 'insecurity' subconsciously, so he wants everything to be under his control. If something unexpected happened, he suspected that he was being cuckolded. Just like that man, his wife missed a few phone calls, suspected her of cheating on her when she came home late, beat and scolded him, and even held his wife hostage to confront the police.

Men are domineering by nature, with instability hidden in their character, so they also hope to have complete control over their wives. When a wife can't control herself, she will inevitably become suspicious, give birth to ghosts, and fantasize about the many evidences of her 'cheating'.