Revealing the reason why it is difficult for beauticians to find a partner

Revealing the reason why it is difficult for beauticians to find a partner. It is said that "men should marry when they are young and women should marry when they are young", but there are a group of people who are of marriageable age. of women are still single. This is the beautician in the beauty industry. Why is it so difficult to find a partner? Let me ask you to reveal the reason why it is difficult for beauticians to find a partner. Reveal the reason why it is difficult for beauticians to find a partner 1

First, the circle is all women

Beauticians work in beauty salons and have contact with Most of them are women, and their social circle is too narrow. As for the male beauticians working in beauty salons, most female beauticians have little interest in them.

Second, long working hours

Beauticians work relatively long hours, usually from 10 a.m. to 10 p.m., so there is no extra time for love. Even if you are in love, you don't have time to spend with your boyfriend. Time tends to dilute everything, and the relationship gradually fades away.

Third, high mobility

We all know that the beautician position is extremely mobile, and it is difficult to stay in a beauty salon for more than a year. , naturally there are very few opportunities to make friends, and there is no need to fall in love.

Fourth, great disparity in status

Most of the people who go to beauticians are wealthy and intellectual women. You can learn a lot from communicating with them. But precisely because they are all women, it is difficult for beauticians to find a spouse. Some of them are local girls or have family members in the city, so it is easy to find a partner. Like beauticians from other places, it is quite difficult to find a partner. If you are younger, you may marry someone from the city. If you are older, you can only marry someone from your hometown who works hard together.

Fifth, work is misunderstood

Many people look down on beauticians and mistakenly believe that beauty salons are different from other places and inevitably have some indiscretions. If you want to find an honest partner, you won't want to work in a beauty salon, as they mistakenly think that they are dishonest and emotionally unreliable. So people who work in beauty salons don’t get married so smoothly.

Although the above reasons prevent the beautician from finding her significant other, there is no rush. The beautician must have a correct attitude, improve her knowledge, and learn something when appropriate. Etiquette, learn to dress yourself up, and then you can wait for the right time to take the initiative! Revealing the reasons why beauticians find it difficult to find a partner 2

Xiaoli (pseudonym), 26 years old, has a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan. She is a beautician and currently works in a well-known chain beauty salon.

A few years ago, Xiaoli returned to her hometown for the Chinese New Year. Her parents saw that she was still young and didn’t have a boyfriend, so they asked someone to introduce them to potential candidates. There were several good candidates, but when the other party heard about Xiaoli’s career He just shook his head, secretly expressing that the girls in the beauty salon were not serious girls, especially those who earned more. One of them was okay, but several of them refused because of Xiaoli's job. For this reason, the family also had difficulties and asked Xiaoli to change her career. Frankly speaking, if she didn't change her job, it would be difficult to find a good partner.

In fact, Xiaoli’s family didn’t understand her work at first. It took Xiaoli a lot of effort to explain to her family what exactly she did and that her salary was all her time. Every penny earned is hard-earned money.

For Xiaoli, she only has a junior high school education. It is not so easy to change careers, and there is no job that can reach the current salary level. She has studied for more than 10 years. It doesn’t mean you should give up on your skills. The most important thing is that every penny you earn is clean. Those who don’t earn as much as you without working hard have the right to fool around... So, Xiaoli She firmly stated that she would never change her career even if she became a leftover woman.

They say that most beauticians are leftover women. After seeing Xiaoli, I believe it. Sometimes it’s really not my own vision that matters, but other people’s colored glasses, so why should I cater to them.

In fact, before I joined Yumeihui, I had some prejudices against beauticians and even the beauty industry due to the influence of news about some beauty salons cheating customers or illegal transactions. But when I entered this industry , after having an in-depth understanding of the life of beauticians, I realized that the reason why it is difficult for them to find boyfriends is...↓

There are no limits on the working life of beauticians

Except for a few In some cases, the vast majority of office workers can get away from work after get off work. The boundaries between work and life are very clear, but for beauticians, this boundary is blurred. Idle people come during working hours and busy people come to receive services during off work hours. For beauticians, there is no distinction between idle and busy, they are all busy.

Xiaofang (pseudonym), a gold medal beautician in a beauty salon, ranks first in performance every month. Customers also praise her. Naturally, her income is high. However, you may only see the rich rewards she received, but not her hard work.

Xiao Fang said that her working hours are almost from 10 a.m. to 10 a.m. In addition to serving customers every day, she will allocate some time for customer maintenance, tracking results, and establishing good customer relationships. . In addition, when she goes shopping, she also pays attention to the clothing matching in the windows, takes time to understand the current makeup trends and learn makeup skills. When she uses her mobile phone to consult, she also pays more attention to diet and health content, and she also pays more attention to everyone when chatting with friends. Regarding the pressure of life and where she is willing to spend, etc...

She said that only when she knows more can she truly be able to give quality suggestions to customers on their overall image and temperament and help them become more beautiful. Let customers trust you.

Beauticians must constantly learn and update their knowledge and skills

Xiaoling (pseudonym), a novice beautician, is a complete rookie. Because the skills are not yet in place, she is not allowed to directly Get started serving customers. Although she does not have to serve customers, it is not easy for her. In addition to receiving training in techniques and fingering skills every day, she also needs to receive training related to sales skills. When she is not training, she has to hand out flyers to attract customers. At the end of the day, she just I want to fall asleep.

You think that Xiaoling needs to receive training just because she is a newbie, but that is not the case! With the improvement of people's living standards, everyone's demand for beauty and health care continues to increase. More and more people are entering beauty salons, and naturally there are more and more requirements. As a beautician, you must constantly learn and update your knowledge and skills.

Sister Lin (pseudonym), a beautician with 15 years of experience. She said that in the past, when customers came to her, she would do it. She had good skills and considerate service, and basically there were no problems. But today’s customers not only have more requirements, but also have more questions. When I see something on the Internet saying that XX is effective, I ask you if you understand it; I heard that there is a wrinkle removal device in Korea, and I ask you what its principle is... really What's more, if you don't have some real skills, you can't even think about retaining customers.

She said that whenever she has time now, she has to constantly recharge herself, not only to learn the operation of new instruments and equipment; but also to understand the product ingredients, efficacy and principles; to learn traditional Chinese medicine acupuncture points, Health knowledge; even psychology. In addition, it is also necessary to learn new massage techniques, such as Thai massage and Korean massage that are now popular.

Sister Lin said that everyone said that the threshold for being a beautician is low and anyone can be a beautician. But after entering the door, if you want to become a professional beautician, you really need to learn a lot.

The schedule of work and study every day is so full that there is no extra time for love. Even if you are in love, you don’t have time to spend time with your boyfriend. If things go on like this, the relationship will gradually fade away. .

Another point that cannot be ignored is that the circle of beauticians are all women, and most of the customers they come into contact with are women. You said, how can you find a boyfriend if there are no men around you? ?

They say happiness is very simple: having something to do, someone to love, and something to look forward to.

But such simple happiness is a luxury for beauticians. There are many things to do. Where are the people who love me, and where is my future?

I am locked up in a beauty salon like a prisoner every day. When business is good, I work hard to serve customers and promote products. When business is bad, I have to attract customers, even using deceptive methods. This not only drags down my body. , Waste your own time, consume your own character, and in the end, you will be viewed by others with colored glasses.

In fact, many beauticians really just want to be a beautician and bring beauty and health to customers through their own hands, instead of spending time every day soliciting sales or waiting.