There are many kinds of friends, and each kind of friend can meet your different needs. If you ask your friends, they will ask you back. If you give it to your friends, they will give it to you. When I was a child, I made friends just for someone to play with me, make me play and make me laugh. Growth should help each other, support each other and develop together; When I get old, I return to someone to accompany me, someone to play, someone to make trouble, and someone to laugh. However, all the beautiful things are gone, only autumn frost sighs in the mirror.
Therefore, the purpose of making friends is clear, and there are standards for making friends.
How do introverts make friends? Everyone has his own personality characteristics, how to overcome the obstacles of introversion in the process of making friends.
I like a sentence very much: open your heart and the sun will shine in. Introverts don't make friends, but they just can't handle interpersonal relationships. We need to take the initiative to care about their ideas, or talk to them about topics of interest, or be introverted in real life. Maybe he will be talkative online. The most important thing is to improve your self-confidence, so that you can take the initiative to make friends. Introverts are characterized by 1. Introverts are generally less likely to make friends with strangers, and introverts are more critical of their friends. Even familiar people only make friends with people they admire, but when they are with people they like, they are less introverted and can speak quite well. But the average introverted person's language expression ability is not very good. This is also a factor that affects making friends. Because I don't like talking, I have fewer opportunities to practice my expression. 2. Introverts are not suitable for making friends by themselves, but they are suitable for making more friends with extroverts, and then let extroverts pull themselves into his circle of friends. Introverts are also more suitable for making friends in familiar groups, such as attending classes or something. Introverts heat up slowly, so it takes a long time to get familiar with someone. So introverts can consciously cultivate themselves to get familiar with the people around them quickly. Such as observing more. Introverts often don't like to observe the people around them, are not interested in people, and are very interested in things. So you can pay attention to this. Learn to be interested in people. Introverts only pay special attention to people who are interested in themselves, especially women. Introverts are often the most prone to mental dependence. Because they don't pay much attention to people at ordinary times, once they pay attention, it is easy to concentrate. Therefore, it is suggested that introverted women should observe the performance of people who are not interested in you, just watch movies and watch their interests slowly. 4. Introverts are more critical of others, so they can review themselves appropriately. Are you perfect? Are you that good? Therefore, observe the advantages of others, and then give them praise at an appropriate time, so that others will accept your goodness and have a good impression on you. 5. Introverts should learn to smile at everyone and improve their affinity. Learn to actively participate in all activities, especially group activities. If you see someone in need of help, you should take the initiative to help them. In this way, although you don't like communication, people can feel your enthusiasm and sincerity and are willing to make friends with you.
At the same time, don't test your friends with money, so it's unnecessary. Borrow less money from friends.
It is human nature to make friends for mutual benefit. However, don't treat communication with friends as purely utilitarian communication, because communication between friends. In addition to helping each other when there is something, it also has the functions of exchange of ideas, complementary knowledge, emotional comfort, joy and pleasure. If friends blindly pursue utilitarian flashes, then such friends will not last long.