1, you should have confidence and firmly believe that you can save your success.
Many people will suffer if they save, and there are 10 thousand reasons to be afraid of this and that. Let's not talk about whether it can be redeemed. First of all, this mentality is wrong.
Murphy's Law tells us that the more you worry about something, the more likely it will happen. I have come into contact with many people who want to recover, and they all have one thing in common, that is, good mentality and clear goals. Just work hard, at least there are no regrets in life. This is the psychological hint of positive energy. The feedback won't be too bad. So a good attitude is definitely conducive to recovery.
2, don't rush to save, keep low frequency contact.
Breaking up is always a painful thing. I can't help but contact her desperately, keep sending messages and making phone calls, and can't wait to show my sincerity to prove my sincerity, but such behavior will only intensify the contradiction between you, make your impression worse and worse, and even contact me to escape your entanglement. So don't entangle too much after breaking up and keep low-frequency contact. If your conflict is really serious, you need to contact each other properly, give each other a calm time and find another opportunity.
Step 3 improve yourself
I broke up with you because I don't like you now, or because you can't satisfy what she wants. It means you still have room for improvement. In the process of breaking up and cooling off each other, you make targeted changes at the same time. The targeted change is that you will try to be more like the person she used to like.
For example, if you were in a hurry before and didn't communicate well with him, you should calm down and learn to communicate well. I thought you were dressed casually before, so now you try to dress up and be fashionable and generous. You used to be a diaosi and didn't like to go out. This is the place where you go out to exercise, go shopping, study and so on to enrich yourself and your anxious circle of friends. Make your life colorful.
In short, the goal is to get what you want, and the principle must be positive and completely new.
4. Get along like ordinary friends and get her back.
Many people are eager to achieve success and get back together from the beginning. In fact, what really needs to be reunited is your relationship. I thought it was natural for you to get back together when your relationship was normal. Therefore, we should get along with ordinary friends in the early stage, gradually increase the emotional temperature, enter her life as an ordinary friend, let her slowly unload her guard, and then find opportunities to pursue.
People are emotional animals, as long as you follow the above points, I believe you will be able to save her beloved.