1, improve their psychological quality. Some students may have problems in emotional communication, so they need to improve their psychological quality, open themselves more, learn to deal with people, joke, fight and study with their classmates with a positive attitude, and help them establish good classmates' relations.
2. Know how to use communication skills. Learn to sympathize with your classmates. If we are faced with some problems, we can put ourselves in the classmate's shoes and see how we can deal with these problems from each other's standpoint. At this point, we can understand how others do when facing and solving problems. In this way, when we get along with our classmates, even if we have different temperaments and different ways to solve problems, we can simplify the handling of problems as much as possible, which is more conducive to our development of interpersonal relationships.
3. Treat people sincerely and respect others. In campus life, it must be our classmates who have the most contact with themselves. Therefore, in order to be more convenient in study and life and reduce unnecessary conflicts and frictions between people, it is an important step for us to have a good relationship with others. The right thing, not the person. When you are dissatisfied with something, just express your different views on the event itself, and don't attack the other person's personality. To yourself, not to others. When you are not satisfied with yourself, you should express your inner feelings directly, and don't jump to conclusions about each other's behavior easily.
4. Actively communicate with classmates. College students don't want to make a fool of themselves, they should actively enrich their interpersonal world. When you take the initiative to associate with your classmates, you will find that other classmates may not be confident to associate with others, so you are no worse than anyone else. You should do better than other students and take the initiative to close the distance between them. In this way, once there are misunderstandings and contradictions between classmates, you can also take the initiative to explain them clearly, eliminate their misunderstandings and re-establish your friendly classmate relationship.
5. Always smile and thank your classmates. Smile is the best weapon and the best bridge to build the relationship between people. In addition, sincere thanks can make people feel that you are educated and willing to spend more time with you. Therefore, no matter big or small, as long as your classmates lend you a helping hand, you should not be stingy with your sincere and friendly thanks, so that you can feel the shining brilliance of human nature between each other, which is conducive to the further development of your classmate relationship.
I hope the above suggestions can help you!