I have never encountered real contact harassment, but my best friend and I have encountered phone harassment, and it was also from our junior high school classmates. Although this kind of harassment did not cause any harm to our bodies, it left a shadow on our minds. During that time, the ringtone of my cell phone was in my mind all day long, and then I would look at my cell phone nervously to see if anyone had called me. My whole body was nagging, and I was in that kind of demonic state every day. Even turning my phone to silent didn't work. It took my roommates a month to help me adjust. At that time, my best friend was not much better, and she was in the same state all day long.

All the above symptoms are attributed to my junior high school classmate. My junior high school classmate and I had nothing to do with each other on weekdays. We were in the same class before, and his presence was very low. At that time, if the teacher hadn’t called him by name every day and said he was distracted and distracted in class, I wouldn’t have remembered it at all. Live his name. I have been a junior high school classmate for three years and have never spoken more than three sentences. He was just a complete stranger in the same class. Even after I graduated from junior high school, if I didn't look at my junior high school graduation photo, I couldn't remember his appearance at all. The relationship with him is really incomparable. My best friend is the same as him. We have never spoken to each other in class. He never comes to us and we never come to him.

I haven’t seen him since high school. I heard from classmates that he dropped out of high school and went out to work. At that time, I didn’t even remember this person in our class. My bestie and I are both foodies, and we especially love cakes. The employees at our nearby dessert shop all know us. Usually when we have nothing to do on weekends, we will eat in one store after another. In high school, time was tight, so I ate less, but a real foodie would not delay eating because of time issues. So after the college entrance examination, we made an appointment to have dessert together. When we both ate, we were very engaged. So when he came in with his girlfriend and sat across from us and greeted us, we didn't know.

Later, he took the initiative to ask us for his mobile phone number. At that time, we didn’t take it seriously and didn’t expect him to call us. But within a few days, he frequently called us on QQ. He came to us. At first out of politeness, we responded to him, but later he was too annoyed and simply stopped replying to him. If we didn’t reply to his message, he called us. At first he didn’t know and answered it stupidly, but later he simply called us. No more calls. But this guy is really persistent and can continue to call even if he doesn't answer the phone. I thought that he would stop after a while, but I didn't know that this person had no self-awareness at all. During that time, even if there was no phone, the phone would ring in my head, almost giving me a nervous breakdown.