Friends

This door retains our last trace of fantasy in the smoke and dust and the last trace of tenderness in the miserable wind and cold rain.

————Inscription

Perhaps, friends are like this, there is always a door that is difficult to open between them. Whether it's a life-and-death friendship over a bowl of strong drinks, or a false friendship, we are just arcs A on different tracks. There are many points in the ups and downs, but we can never perfectly integrate with any of them.

The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. The ancients have long known that there is an insurmountable final barrier between friends. So people always try to cover themselves, finely adjust the distance from each other, and carefully modify the smiles on their faces. In this era where everything is digital, friendship seems to need to be calculated over and over again like an equation. No wonder some people say: Making friends is too tiring.

True friendship relies on feeling. No matter whether you are thousands of miles away or close at hand, you can feel each other's "heartbeat" tactfully. The door exists, but what does it matter? A woodcutter and a luthier, different classes and different roles, can still play the eternal song of "mountain and flowing water".

If friendship is silent, can the beautiful nightingale break this silence? False friendship, like the gentle breeze blowing on the sea and the silence of the waves, it disappears. But sincere emotions can imprint eternal memories deep in the soul. Even on a desolate night, they will blend into the singing of the stars with the most gorgeous rhythm.

We don’t need to deliberately keep a distance or calculate the scale. Friendship can shine with the most touching luster as long as it is barefaced. Let’s not break that door. A true confidant can understand the other person’s thoughts even through the door. Isn't this feeling in the dark more indescribably charming than the unobstructed view in broad daylight?

That door is the hazy back under the small red umbrella in the misty rain, and the looming eyes in the dim candlelight. We may never be able to see its true face, but it is this door that retains our last bit of fantasy in the smoke and dust and the last bit of tenderness in the miserable wind and cold rain.

Perhaps, friends are like this, sitting on both sides of the same door, each with his own life and his own world. It is this seemingly indifferent door that conveys the most precious friendship, allowing us to find comfort on this side of life and bringing hope to the other side. Maybe that's what friends are like.

Friend, have you found it?

“Wouldn’t it be great to have friends from far away?” A close friend and a critical friend are enough for this life.

Friends who played around in childhood add a lot of fun to your life; friends who are critical in the learning process make you avoid many detours on the road of study; good friends at work make every day of your life more enjoyable. The day is full of sunshine. When you are sad, she will find ways to make you happy; when you are happy, she will silently bless you and share the happiness with you. This is what friends are.

There are many hardships on the road of life. A little skin is worn here, a hole is made here, and strong winds and waves will come one after another. Without friends to silently support and encourage me, I want to go through this journey alone. A difficult journey, that is impossible. A friend is someone you can talk to about your pain. A friend is a harbor where you can take a break, where you can be unrestrained, open your mind, and show your complete self.

No one does not need a friend, and no one does not have a friend, unless he is self-enclosed and isolated from the world. Li Bai said it well: "The water in the Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, and it is not as deep as Wang Lun's gift to me." After receiving such sincere hospitality from his friends, although there are not thousands of hotels, everyone is already drunk even if the wine is not intoxicating. Faced with his friend's kindness, Li Bai What more can be said?

The word "friend" bridges the long-broken line between people; the word "friend" makes the hearts of people from all over the world merge together. The entire Chinese nation, precisely because of With the voice of "friend", I am even more prosperous.

In the song "Friends", it is sung: The more friends the road becomes easier.

The spiritual thread between friends is like a giant net, covering the land of the motherland. Although they are separated by hundreds of thousands of miles, their hearts are still connected.

I won’t give up on my friend just because of her one mistake, and I believe you won’t either, and neither will she. People are honest and honest with each other, and there is no absolute right or wrong. You will forgive your friends, and your friends will forgive you. No one can understand the tacit understanding between the two.

My friend is the sky, and I am the star. The sky contains everything about the stars, and the stars embellish the sky, which makes the starry sky more beautiful and the stars more dazzling.

My friends are trees and I am a bird. Trees provide shelter for birds, protecting them from the sun and rain; birds bring more vitality to the trees. It was chirping, and its brisk figure flickered in and out between the leaves. This scene is so fascinating.

Friend, friend, I am destined to have you. You will be my lifelong partner, I am sure.

As close as a blue house, as far as a house

What is a friend? The acquaintances of people are friends, the acquaintances of fair and meat are friends, the acquaintances of eight worshipers are friends, the acquaintances of foxes and dogs are friends, the acquaintances of life and death are friends, the acquaintances of common people are friends, the mountains and rivers are friends, and those who work together are also friends. An ancient saying goes: Being with good people is like entering a house of orchids, which will smell good over time. Being with evil people is like entering a house of abalone, which will smell bad over time. Those who are close to vermilion are red, and those who are close to ink are black. This is true.

A close friend who rubs shoulders with each other, a friend who speaks out right and wrong without being humble or arrogant, a friend who is a thief and a friend who forgets his loyalty while drinking and drinking, and a friend who shares blessings and hardships together is a righteous friend. "There are bosom friends in the sea, and the ends of the earth are like neighbors" are friends; "Spring trees in Weibei, sunset clouds in the east of the Yangtze River" are friends; "Peach Blossom Pond is a thousand feet deep, not as deep as Wang Lun's love for me" is friends; "Relatives and friends in Luoyang are like asking each other." , A friend is a friend who has a heart of ice in a jade pot, a friend is a friend who "dark wind blows rain into a cold window", a friend is a friend who is "intoxicated and intoxicated", a friend is a friend who "talks about the piano and composes poems, and howls and chants all day long" , Those who "drink themselves drunkenly, and become friends with gold and jade" are friends, those who "are both fallen people at the end of the world, why should we have known each other before meeting" are friends, and those who "are all brothers within the four seas" are also friends. Yes, friends are always by your side. My friends, it is true that “one size fits all”.

"Zhuangzi. There is a saying in "Shanmu": The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as sweet wine. This is a very good statement. Today's whirling world can be described as a mixture of dragons and snakes. Newcomers who have never experienced the world will inevitably be indiscriminate and treat each other as brothers in a few words. So within a few days, it would "feel like entering an abalone house, and it will stink of itself for a long time." As a result, encountering unforeseen disasters is like picking chestnuts out of the fire without realizing it. Being taken advantage of by others, even if you are unwilling to do so, has become a drunken lamb.

Of course, there are also people who are conscientious in their work, careful everywhere, and always attentive. They stay away from their sensual dogs, horses, fighting cocks, lackeys, hulu, and pheasants, and get close to the high mountains and admire them. As high as you drill, you become strong, and the influence of your ears and eyes changes subtly, and you become an idle person who "doesn't wear shoes in the melon field, and does not wear his crown under the plum tree", "looks up to the sky, and does not bow to the earth". Even if he cannot be famous for a hundred years, he will not be infamous for thousands of years!

The wise man warned: Be careful when making friends. You must never have the intention to harm others, but you must also never have the intention to guard against others. As the saying goes, "It is difficult to paint the skin of a tiger, but it is difficult to paint the bones. You cannot know the face of a person but not the heart." You cannot judge the quality by its appearance. It is also said that "a long road will tell the strength of a horse, and time will tell a person's heart." Only after being together for many days can you judge the strength of the horse and judge its quality. If you find that the person you are dealing with is a gang of foxes and dogs, you must rein in the situation and wake up in time. Otherwise, "a blind man rides a blind horse, facing a deep pool in the middle of the night". One day he will be riding a tiger and it will be difficult to get off. If he makes the same mistake again and again, it will be "one misstep that will lead to eternal hatred"!

You should think carefully about this.

Friends

Friends, this is such a familiar and lovely word. Friendship is abstract and implicit, but friends are concrete and real. Because of friends, we feel the joy of growing up; because of friends, we have the madness of youth; because of friends, we have the openness of heart.

Friend, what a sincere person! People cannot grow without their parents and elders, but they cannot live without their friends either. It is an alternative kind of tender care outside of home, and the most vivid color that embellishes life.

Ah, friend, how many times have I seen your emergence in Engels's life. You passed on Marx's thoughts to him, making world communism a glorious achievement. Ah, friend, how many times have I seen you in Du Fu's "Dream of Li Bai", which made the poet of the Qianqiu Dynasty write so many immortal poems for a generation of poets, leaving an immortal legacy for our country's poetry. Ah, friend, how many times have I seen your soul in Boya's harp, creating a lasting story between these two worlds apart. Ah, friend...

Friends are the clear spring in the desert, which bring you not only quench your thirst, but also the sweetness and coolness; friends are the cool breeze in the hot summer, which bring you It is refreshing and comfortable; friends are that piece of charcoal on a cold winter night, making you feel a kind of warmth that penetrates your heart; friends are that eternal guiding light that illuminates your way forward, and more The direction of guidance...

Once upon a time, there was a story that two students who went to Beijing to take the exam became friends on the way and agreed to visit one of them at Li's house for three years. Three years later, the Li family spent the whole day waiting for another person named Fan, but Fan arrived late. Mother Li said that people might have forgotten it after three years. However, Li believed that something had happened to his friend and that he was late, so he asked his slave to wait at the entrance of the village. Sure enough, Fan was robbed as soon as he left home, but he stuck to his oath and made it all the way to Li's house. When the friends met, they were extremely excited. Mother Li burst into tears and said, "What other requirements does my son have for having such a friend?" Friends is such a great and immortal word!