When it comes to the role of friends, it is nothing more than being able to laugh together when you are happy and being there to support you when you are in trouble. But now most people make friends to take advantage. After drinking tea together a few times, they start to call each other brothers, and then they will borrow your car from you if they have nothing to do. "I'm going to pick up a friend at the airport. It's inconvenient without a car." "Think about it tomorrow morning. I went for a morning jog by the lake with my girlfriend, but there were no buses too early.” You make so many friends just to borrow cars on a rotating basis. If you had spared your energy from work, you would have bought a car earlier.
Don’t ask your friends to borrow money. If you can get a loan, if your friend is willing to lend you money, remember to give him interest. When he gets a new mobile phone, he wants to replace it, he also wants to buy a new TV for his parents’ house, and he also wants to spend the weekend. Take your girlfriend to the beach for two days and then go to the Intercontinental for a meal. Don't always think that your friend's money is just sitting in the bank doing nothing. Don't think that your friend bought a car that is not used at all and just parked in the garage gathering dust. Don't think that your friend has plenty of time. Available on call. Don't trouble your friends over trivial matters. When friends treat you to dinner, sometimes you may meet someone with low emotional intelligence who orders expensive food or wine. At the end of the day, grab the order and say something nice to get everyone going.
It is really rare to have a friend to talk to, who is on the right track in every aspect, and who has a tacit understanding together. It would be nice to have fun and be able to speak your mind. Why do you think about troublesome others all day long? Who is stupid now? Those friends with benefits just break up, and they carefully maintain this kind of circle. Isn't it tiring?
I believe that how you treat your friends will determine the kind of friends you will have.