When young people are in love, the consideration is very simple. As long as they can meet the needs of both men and women, they will live hastily, regardless of the long-term life foundation in the future. In the face of various problems in the real society, they also show an embarrassing situation that they can't solve. In fact, in this case, only one party makes sacrifices, and it is impossible to have both. That's greedy At the same time, you two seem to "want to be together" now, but I see a crisis in it. The woman not only wants to get a handsome boy from other places to be a doorman, so as to control the future marriage initiative, but also is a person who doesn't want to pay. The man is willing to "marry" the woman as a son-in-law, but he wants to get the property of his hometown, because once he "marries" to Tianjin, he will find that he has no independent economic foundation, and if his marriage changes in the future, he will not be able to stand in Tianjin. Therefore, both of them have their own "small abacus", and these private "small ninety-nine" will one day break out in the actual family operation in the future. Now "wanting to be together" is just to "sleep" together, and regards desire as feelings and marriage, not cohabitation in the true sense. The so-called love is just a fig leaf. The solution is that one party makes concessions or sacrifices for true love. It seems that the man may make more concessions. The woman must absolutely guarantee that after the man gives in, she understands the man's sacrifice and is loyal to the stunner she wants. Don't abandon or break the so-called "declaration of love" after satisfying your own desires. Don't let that man eat soft rice or wear a green hat in Tianjin.