Family, love, and friendship have these three things, which can be said to be the three pillars of life. If one is missing, it will be lonely and regretful. If a person loses his family ties, he is like a lonely goose flying in the sky; if he loses his friendship, he is like a lonely tree facing the wind. Therefore, no matter whether it is a sage or an ordinary person, it is human nature to be attached to loved ones; it is human nature to pursue love; it is people's philosophy to cherish friendship. Family love is the essence of life. People need family love just like seeds need sunlight as water for them to germinate. Without the nourishment of family ties, there would be no life, and there would be no talk of concrete career, family, abstract success, etc. Family affection is a very broad concept, containing many contents, among which filial piety is the most important. Youdao is "Thousands of classics, filial piety is the first." Therefore, the ancients also put forward clear requirements for filial piety. The scripture says: "A gentleman treats his relatives by respecting them when he lives there, by nourishing them he will be happy, by illness he will be sad, by mourning he will be weak, and by stupidity he will be severe." However, in real life, those who blaspheme family ties still do so. Unfilial piety is the worst evil. In fact, the judgment of filial piety and unfilial piety only exist through comparison in people's minds. As the saying goes, what people want is what they want. It should be noted that "Sheep have the kindness to kneel down to breastfeed, and crows have the kindness to feed them in return." If birds and beasts are like this, people should take care of themselves even more. Love is the essential element of life. According to common sense, only when there is love can there be marriage, and when there is marriage, love should be valued. The ancients said: "Husband and wife respect each other as guests, then the husband and wife can fulfill the Way. If they can fulfill the Way as husband and wife, then they can fulfill the Way as father, son, brother, monarch and minister." *, so it is said: If you give up your parents and brothers and entrust them to me for the rest of your life, you can also remember this. Serving your parents, offering sacrifices, and passing on to future generations will be more serious. , should not be treated lightly. "Nowadays, the probability of sudden marriage and family breakdown is increasing rapidly. Of course, there are many objective reasons. However, there are many people who underestimate traditional virtues and focus on happiness, abandon love to play games, and regard family as a shackle. Love is the bridge of the soul, and family is the "cell" of society. If a small number of "cells" are diseased, it is normal, but if a large number of "cells" decompose and fission, it may be harmful to the health of the body. Therefore, when facing the complicated and wonderful world, people should be calm and cautious in dealing with it. Otherwise, a single thought will lead to lifelong resentment. The basis of friendship should be people of the same way. Ouyang Xiu of the Song Dynasty said: "A gentleman and a gentleman are friends of the same way, and a villain and a villain are friends of the same way." People of the same way can be encountered but cannot be sought. Birds of a feather flock together, and friendship between noble and pure people should be based on "comrades benefiting each other, and colleagues benefiting each other," rather than "sharing the same evil, sharing the same wisdom." Only with like-minded people, only sincerity and trust, can bosom friends and comrades Make friendships deep-rooted. As the ancients said: "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as honey. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as sweet as honey. If there is no reason to join together, then there is no reason to separate." Looking at ancient and modern times, all true gentlemen Friends need not go to the Peach Garden to form alliances with each other, nor do they need to present beard bags at the Spring and Autumn Pavilion. When you can't sleep at night, think about the friends you have. Family affection is more important than deep, love is more important than true, and friendship is more important than sincerity. This is from the perspective of emotion. Real human emotions are like other things, and their perfection and improvement are endless. If everyone demands and restrains themselves according to the standards of "truth, goodness, and beauty", then our world will definitely be happier and better.