Let me tell you about the situation in our village

1. First of all, they don’t call it bride price, they call it bride price. Basically, Hebei also calls it that. It is usually 28,000 or 33,000, which is the basic type, and most of them do not include the so-called three-gold jewelry and clothes. Of course, the specific determination can be discussed by both parties.

2. The woman’s dowry: (1): based on economic strength (2): based on bride price, this is the main basis. The woman's dowry usually consists of household appliances. If the woman's financial strength is better and the man's betrothal gifts are large, the woman will usually be given a van or a pickup truck worth about 30,000 yuan. If the woman's financial strength is relatively poor and the bride price in the south is small, a motorcycle is usually given as a dowry.

3. The specific amount must be discussed by both parents.

4. New house: Whether you buy a commercial house in the county or build it in the village, the man must be solely responsible for this, and it belongs to him. Responsibilities and obligations, otherwise, wouldn’t that be an intrusion? Of course, if you buy a commercial house, the woman can support part of the money depending on the situation. If the house is built in the village, the man must be fully responsible. If this is not possible, then don't marry a wife.

5. Of course you have to propose marriage. This is a tradition left by our ancestors. It has been around since the Western Zhou Dynasty. The details of the betrothal gift can be discussed with the matchmaker.

6. Before getting married, is the man not allowed to go to the woman’s house? Yes, in fact, according to the "routine", men and women cannot meet before entering the bridal chamber. All matters are decided by the matchmaker and the parents of both parties. Otherwise, why would the bride wear a red hijab? But now some old feudal traditions have been abolished. Not to mention that the country now advocates freedom of love and autonomy in marriage, so the current tradition is that men and women cannot meet each other the day before marriage.

7. The groom will pay 100 yuan for the wedding banquet, so there is no need to discuss this. Gifts are generally collected from the man's family and from the woman's family. Nowadays, women generally have some money after getting married. They think this is the right to speak and independence in marriage and life. Of course, the specific details can still be discussed by both parties. Are you going to hold two wedding banquets? Is the bride from out of town? If it's done twice and once on the woman's side, it should be the woman's expense. I can't say for sure, because here we all do it once on the man's side and that's it.

8. Haha, what are you giving red envelopes to the elders! All the elders will give you red envelopes on your wedding day! The rules are: the bride bows to the groom’s elders, and then the elders give red envelopes to the bride; the groom bows to the bride’s elders, and then the elders give red envelopes to the groom. Just wait and get the red envelope that day, haha.

Marriage is the most important event in life. It is a time-consuming and labor-intensive event. From falling in love to decorating a new house to entering the bridal chamber, there will be many small disturbances and episodes in between. Both men and women and their parents must communicate with each other. It is really not easy for two people to go from acquaintance to marriage by sitting down and discussing in a considerate and calm manner. Okay, I won’t say much else. I wish you: the piano and the harp are in harmony, and the full moon is full of flowers!

I’m afraid it would be difficult to ask people from Chencun and Liangzhuang to answer this question. Baoding is almost the same everywhere. Li County’s economy is pretty good and it is considered a relatively wealthy county. The standard is That’s it.