My ex-girlfriend is getting married, and I haven’t found the right one yet, but I can’t forget my ex-girlfriend. How did I do it?

There are only two ways to forget an old love, 1 , waiting time, 2. Find a new love, and the reason why you can't forget it is that either the new love is not good enough (obviously you don't have a new love yet), or the time is not long enough,

There is nothing that can't be overcome Yes, everyone is getting married, so hurry up and start your new life. If you don’t give up the past, how can you embrace the future?

I hope you will adopt it~~Thank you~~ My ex-girlfriend got married and I can’t forget. What should I do?

Forget...a heartbreaking question. . . . After all, if you forget the past, you are lying to yourself and others. As long as there is something that can connect you to the past, you cannot forget the past. Don't run away, there is no use regretting. . . Isn't there a saying that says that? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime. . . . This is love! If you deliberately forget, you will remember it more deeply, so don't deliberately forget and let everything become dull. Do what you should do, and don't let yourself often be alone and think hard. As time goes by, it will slowly fade away. . . Instead of trying to forget, it is better to keep yourself busy, make your life fulfilling, and make yourself have no time to miss it. Don't forget deliberately. If you do so deliberately, it will only make you remember it more firmly. . . Try to expand your circle of friends and contact as many people as possible. Try to discover your hobbies and do things you like to play an empathic role. I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him or her again, your heart no longer hurts. Unknowingly, he has become "that person". . . Already married. But what should I do if I can’t forget my ex-girlfriend?

You are acting irresponsibly! Since you are willing to spend your life with your current wife, don't always forget the past. Maybe it's because you haven't been together for a long time, so you will occasionally think of her in the past, but please believe that time will dilute everything, no matter you are willing to remember it. Memories that arise and do not want to be remembered. Slowly it will leave our minds over time. Don’t you have feelings for your current wife when you are together? Love is not everything about marriage! My ex-girlfriend is getting married and I have cut off contact with her. But I can't forget, what should I do?

Hello:

First of all, I want to tell you that it is not easy to forget a person or a relationship. We need to pay a lot for it. Someone once said that it is impossible for people to forget the person they loved, because once forgotten, it is not love. If you think about it carefully, I still think it makes sense. So you don't have to blame yourself or worry about someone you can't forget. But it will be very uncomfortable if we can't forget what we don't want to remember, so we still have to try to forget or look down on it.

Here are some methods and ideas for your reference: (I cannot guarantee that it will be absolutely useful, but it will always be helpful to you)

1. Forget a person who occupies a place in your heart. It’s not easy for heavy people. But it's not impossible. You can distract yourself by diverting your attention, for example: play more with friends, find more happy things to do, read more humorous books and periodicals, and relax yourself. Watch some comedy movies to relax yourself. Listen to music, remember not to be sentimental. Go out and socialize!

2. You can ask yourself, do you love him (her), or do you want to get through loneliness? As for the more you want to like him (her), it may be because you are in love with him (her). You can watch less intimacy between couples in your life or in romantic dramas.

3. Time will make you forget her (him). It is best to keep yourself very busy every day. It is best not to live in the same city with her (him). It is best for you to go Make some new friends, maybe one of them will be your favorite in the future. In fact, there is no need to deliberately forget her (him), because the more you want to forget, when you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her (him) again.

You can recall every bit of her (him), and when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, you will find that your memory will gradually fail to remember it. , just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes you even forget what you had for breakfast. Never go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her (him) more than before. It is easy to love someone, difficult to forget someone, and even harder to truly hate this person. You just need to leave your forgetfulness to her (him) to time. As time goes by, you will forget it even if you don't forget it.

4. In fact, sometimes you can change your mind: you love her (him)! But sometimes, giving up is for a better choice. On the one hand you can find your own true love and get someone better than her (him). On the other hand, you love her (him), but you hope that she (him) will live a better life. Maybe she (he) will live a better life than you do now after she (he) leaves you. In fact, you should be happy.

5. If that person is your first love, don’t think too much about it, because there are some sayings: “It is said that people cannot forget their first love. First love is the most beautiful and the most worth remembering. "I'm not qualified to refute this, but I think some people are influenced by these thoughts and have received some so-called psychological hints. In fact, very simple things have become complicated. Don't follow the crowd. And many people will always feel at a loss after experiencing the first breakup. That is when they got the baptism of love for the first time and indulged in it. The beautiful feelings are echoing. Even if they are lost in an instant, there will always be some discomfort. , but when you get the feeling of loving and being loved again in the future, maybe this atmosphere will come back, why not look forward to that?

6. Let me tell you a more extreme method: There is a saying that "love produces hatred". This is not unreasonable. At the same time, you can also use this method. When you think about him (her), if I'm not wrong, you basically think about his (her) good things and the happy scenes between you and him (her). In fact, this is not good and will make it more difficult for you to extricate yourself. On the contrary, you can think more about how bad he (she) is, how he (she) betrayed you and abandoned you, and often think about how he (she) consumed your youth and caused you to be like this. It's uncomfortable because he (she) doesn't want you and makes you so embarrassed. In other words, the worse you think about him or her, the better. This will gradually make you go from loving to not loving, from not loving to disgusting, and finally to the so-called "hate". When you first start "hating" him (her), you have to pay attention to the degree, otherwise you will fall into a vicious circle again.

7. After you fall out of love, after a short transition After the period, you can have more contact with other people of the opposite sex (it’s best if someone of the opposite sex takes the initiative to approach you, but don’t resist) and maybe you’ll have feelings for them. It's not a bad idea to transfer your feelings to another person when something happens.

8. My friend, I can tell you something about me: To be honest, I have always liked someone, but that person doesn’t like me now, but I also think about you, and every time I think about it, I have a feeling. It feels regretful, but I tell myself that I still have a long way to go. If that person doesn’t accept me, it will be useless no matter how hard I try. So bury this feeling deep in your heart and treasure it. Let me tell you one more thing: Your current girlfriend (boyfriend) or wife (husband) is not the person you love the most. In fact, it makes sense if you look carefully.

I hope you will come out of it soon. Come on~! What should I do if I can’t forget my ex-girlfriend?

Look in the mirror first.

Then wash your face.

As you wash, imagine that the water is tears.

Eh-that’s not right either. In this way you will hate her and cannot forget her.

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It is right to like someone.

No one can forget their ex, but you have to imagine the future.

In the future, you will get married and have children. If you meet her, what will you do? Abandon your wife? (No one would do this, right)

So.

People have to eat forward and cannot just eat one chicken drumstick.

My fiancé can’t forget his ex-girlfriend. Should I marry him?

Silly girl, I will never get married! Let him go as far as he can!

Why would you marry a man who is so immersed in the past and can't let go? Life after marriage is a more normal life between two families and raising children. Before marriage, he was still hesitant about the past. You still expect him to take up family responsibilities and live a good life with you!

Don’t be so fanciful that you can change a man after marriage! This will come at a price of blood and tears! Resolutely sever ties with such a scumbag!

Find your own true love! He doesn't love you! This is certain!

What’s wrong with your fiancé? Do you have to marry him when you get engaged? Don’t be forced to have no opinion by the pressure from your family, let alone be unprincipled by your fiancé’s sweet words! My fiancé is just looking for someone to marry, and you are a pretty good result from the comprehensive screening! His heart is not with you! The probability of his cheating after marriage and the instability of your marriage are extremely high!

You have the right to choose your own happy life! Think carefully! Make a wrong step and you will pay a huge price! No matter what you choose, you can't regret or complain! You have to make your own way! What is the most appropriate congratulatory message for my ex-girlfriend when she is getting married?

I think the most common priority is enough. Since we broke up and she is getting married again, then you should let go. Sincerely She said: Happy wedding. Simple and sincere. My ex-girlfriend is getting married, how much red envelope is appropriate?

No need to give red envelopes

Your blessings are more useful than red envelopes

Besides, you are just exes

You gave her a red envelope, how can she explain it to her husband? What should I do if I get married but I fall in love with my ex-girlfriend?

Look for the good qualities of your current wife, and try to love the women around you more. Everyone has their own strengths. Your ex-girlfriend is just the woman in your memories, and may not be the one beside you. My good ex-girlfriend is married, can I still pursue her?

She has moved on and is in another relationship. Breaking up with her is a relief. I hope I can find someone who loves you more