Stingy is not a good word. I believe that when making friends, everyone does not like the other person to be a stingy person. Stingy men are actually the most despised by women. Stingy men are very afraid of falling in love. Spend money.

What does it mean when your boyfriend is stingy?

1. He refuses to spend money on you for the reason of saving money all day long

Some men earn more than 10,000 yuan a month, but they are always there You complain in front of me that you don't have enough money, and you have to spend money whenever you go out. You also say that you will start saving money from now on. But through your careful observation, you will find that he does not have a loan, nor does he send money to his parents to supplement the family income, and he does not socialize much, which is not what he said. You paid for most of your dates, and he didn't give you any expensive gifts. But he always likes to cry poor in front of you. Apart from his own personality, he is stingy.

2. Friends are like brothers and sisters, women are like clothes

Some men are generous and generous in front of their friends. They rarely go to cheap roadside stalls when entertaining guests, but often go to some mid-to-high-end ones. Dining room. But eating with you is very casual and he rarely goes to mid-to-high-end restaurants. Food stalls and Malatang are his first choices. If you tell him that other girls received some expensive gifts from their boyfriends on their birthdays, he will say disdainfully: "That's a waste of money!", and he is likely to often talk to you. , verbally promised to buy you expensive things, but you have never seen him buy it for you. A man who spends money on you may not really love you, and a man who doesn't spend money on you must not love you. If you meet such a boyfriend, break up with him as soon as possible. He doesn't really love you, and is probably wary of you.

3. Always forget to bring your wallet when you go out, and always ask you to pay

Some men’s families are not very well-off, and they have learned to be thrifty since they were young. When he was in love, he was reluctant to spend too much money on you, but he was very kind to you in other ways. Such a man knows how to save money and how to spend it wisely instead of just sitting there and eating nothing. If when you spend your own money to buy some expensive things, he is pointing fingers at you from the sidelines, saying that you are wasteful and unable to live, for fear that you will spend his money indiscriminately in the future. Such men have become stingy because of excessive frugality. They don't know that money does not come from frugality. Being able to spend money also means that you can make money. If you only make money but are reluctant to spend money, what is the difference between this and Grandet.

4. When dating you, I will always talk about AA system

Some men attach great importance to money when they go out on a date. Once he spends too much, he will be a little unhappy. For example, if he pays for meals or movies, then he will definitely not take the initiative to pay for the next activity. If you go to pay, he won't stop you. He thinks it's okay for both of you to spend about the same amount. Such a man doesn't want to take advantage of you, but he will never let himself suffer. He is not with you to enjoy the beauty of love with you, but because he values ??money more. You won't be too happy with such a man.

5. After breaking up with you, be sure to get the gift back

A friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend. A few days after the breakup, he suddenly remembered the gift he gave to his friend half a year ago. For a tablet worth less than one thousand, it’s okay not to return it, but you have to give him money. My friend complained to me that he was blind at the time and met such a scumbag. And she sent the tablet to her ex-boyfriend without saying anything. Such a man is not grand at all. He is very unwilling after being dumped. He feels that he has received nothing and suffered a great loss, so he wants to obtain psychological balance through material things. Such a man is neither stingy nor thrifty, but has character and psychological problems.

Signs of a man being stingy

1. Your favorite place to eat is the buffet restaurant, and you will choose the most expensive food there to eat, regardless of whether you like it or not.

2. If a mobile phone has been used for more than six years, it will only be replaced when it is completely unusable.

3. The gifts given to you are prizes issued by the unit.

4. I will not give you expensive gifts, and I will only choose some free places to date you.

5. There are always reasons to forget your birthday and some very memorable days.

6. I will tell you I love you every day, but I will not buy you any gifts.

7. Will eat more than you can finish.

8. Even if you use toilet paper, you will be stipulated in how much you use.

9. Will set the time for you to take a bath.

10. Even if you have a car, you will choose public transportation.

11. I will prepare surprises for you, but they will not cost enough.

12. On your birthday, I will take you to a place with coupons to eat.

13. Wear one piece of clothing for many years.

14. When I buy something for you, I will always find something cheap and discounted.

15. Will buy things when there is a discount in the supermarket.

16. In order to save money, I will often choose to walk to you.

17. It will make you eat yesterday’s leftovers.

18. I won’t take you to the cinema.

19. I won’t spend money to prepare surprises for you.

20. Make excuses not to participate in any activities that cost money.

Tricks to deal with stingy men

1. Swipe his cards as much as you want in front of him.

2. Find an opportunity to let him take you to a high-end restaurant for dinner.

3. Let him always feel that you will leave him because of his stinginess.

4. Take her to some of your gatherings frequently to make her feel stingy.

How about men’s psychology of cheating?

1. For many men, the less they can get is the best. Therefore, some men in life always think that stolen things are better, and they flirt with others even when they have girlfriends. Therefore, they feel that it would be better if they are lazy, but the lazy ones are not their own, and often such behavior can only hurt both sides in the end.

2. Why do you think a man cares more if he doesn’t pester him? In fact, this is also a kind of shameful psychology on their part. After two people break up, if you want to save the relationship, go to him. She, then this will only push the other party further and further away. If you ignore the other person at this time, he will think of you more and more. So sometimes men are actually very mean.