First of all, I want to tell my brothers that the blind date is different from other girls. You don't know each other at all, but you know each other for a purpose-to get married So from the moment you get to know each other, you will hold an attitude of observation and inquiry and have higher requirements for each other. Moreover, when the introducer introduced you before, it must have been greatly exaggerated, and you were well packaged. Therefore, if in your subsequent contact, contact with blind date is more cautious than contact with ordinary female friends, because you have crossed the friend stage from the beginning.

When chatting, don't put punctuation marks after every sentence.

In fact, this is a small detail, but it is a very bad habit. Everyone should know that punctuation can actually express their emotions to a certain extent, so if you use the wrong punctuation, girls will get the wrong meaning.

For example, some brothers like to use exclamation marks, and each sentence will be followed by an exclamation mark, which will make girls feel that you are more emotional, impatient and perfunctory in chatting. But if you always use a full stop, it will make girls feel that your mood is not high, as if every sentence wants to end the topic. If you like to use commas at the end of each sentence, it will give people the feeling that you haven't finished the sentence, and the other party will feel a little flustered and have no comfortable atmosphere for chatting.

Therefore, if chatting, it is best not to add a comma at the end, and more than ten words per sentence is enough. More girls think that you have a strong sense of needs, while fewer girls think that you are busy and absent-minded, so you should master the degree.

Besides, I have to talk to my brothers about the audit.

Because the meeting time of blind date is always short, and many questions are not easy to ask for the first time. Many brothers took the opportunity of WeChat chat to start asking carpet questions for fear of missing the next question.

In this way, girls will find you annoying and don't want to answer so many questions just when they meet, which will make a bad impression. I would like to remind all brothers here that it is useless for men and women who have just met to know how much information they know. What is important is charm. If they can continue to develop, they will know everything.

Some brothers said that because it was useless to talk at first, they could only ask each other about the situation.

Wrong, asking too many questions will expose the sense of need and make the other person feel that you have a lot of ideas for her.

In fact, it is better to simply talk about my views on several topics, learn about some topics that girls like through friends circle, and talk briefly.

Girls will think you have your own ideas. Don't talk too long. Let her go to bed early at night to end the topic. Once a girl has a crush on you, she will have plenty of opportunities to pester you to chat in the future.

When making contact with blind date, brothers should understand that each other also needs marriage. After all, it is very anxious for older women to find a partner, but since they are all this age, of course they will not make do, and the requirements for men will still be high, so you should interpret their psychology and be anxious but not make do.

So once you behave well and make her feel your high value, she naturally wants to know more about you. If she finds that you are not bad, she may be able to determine the relationship in a short time. However, if she finds out that you are an elderly man with a bursting sense of need, she will be too lazy to talk to you. It's better to be friends with you. It's more direct to tell the matchmaker that it's inappropriate, and then it's a stranger again.