In daily communication, people always feel that "talking equals gathering". People with different topics and different ideas always feel embarrassed and can't get along with themselves. Let's take a look at the skills of chatting, so that you won't go into a dead end when chatting with others, but let others feel "compatible" with you.

First, talk about life, ideals and the future.

Talking with people is the most artistic, and life and ideals are the most basic necessities for success. When chatting with people, you can guide others to tell their ideals and their future. When you know other people's ideals, are you afraid that you can't find a topic? Not only should you listen, but you should also talk about your own ideals and the future you want, and you should speak out with longing and enthusiasm. After all, this is what you want.

Second, gossip.

Although it is not good to discuss gossip sometimes, gossip is undoubtedly a way of endless topics and inspiring others' endless ideas. After dinner, people always like to discuss some gossip to fill their blank time. You can say what you know and don't reveal other people's secrets, and you can also discuss some gossip behind celebrities and news. Besides, think about how to deal with other people's questions. After all, people who gossip will be curious, and curious people will come up with many strange ideas.

Third, your little secret.

Your little secret here can only be "small", not "big" Why not be big? Because you are afraid that if you tell the secret to the wind, it will go through the whole forest. Telling others some of their own secrets properly will make others feel that you trust him, that he has a good relationship with you, and even that he will tell you some of his own secrets if possible. This method is actually a good interactive method. And in the long run, are you afraid that you can't find a topic to talk about?