"Love" is the cause, "response" is the result, and sharing needs a response. There is an "emotional mailbox" between people. If you don't respond to sharing, the desire to share will decrease after a long time, which will affect intimacy.
Sharing desire and response is the highest level of romance. I think this is a high evaluation of sharing. Many times, even if we live in different cities with our friends, we still want to share our little things with them. Of course, we can't think that the other party is angry without timely reply, or even think that sharing is not worth it. In this era of strong sense of rhythm, each has his own things to do. There is no need to reply in time when sharing, because at the moment of sharing, we actually feel happy and satisfied. Everyone is willing to share the details of life, and they will feel twice as happy.
Feelings cultivated through the details of life are far more stable than those maintained by vows of eternal love. The promise may not be kept, but the details will not lie. I know these things have nothing to do with them, but I still want them to participate in my life. Just like my usual circle of friends, it is a way to meet.
I think sharing desire is very, very important in love. The person who can make you want to share and talk must be someone you care about very much. You are willing to tell her all your true thoughts, good and bad. She dares to put her truest self in front of you without reservation and can accept every aspect of you.
If you don't face the people you care about, it's too tiring to talk nonsense. After all, work and study in real life have made people very tired and busy. Everyone's life can't be wonderful every day, and day after day is the norm. Friends and lovers don't always have new topics, so what do they need to maintain their feelings?
"This song is really nice. Go and listen. " "This milk tea is the sweetest. Remember to drink next time! " "Passing xxx today, I saw a cake shop opened. Let's eat together next time. " "I'm so hungry, do you want something to eat? But I'm afraid of being fat. " What are we going to do tomorrow? Think about it. "Wow, let me show you this little cute. I like it so much. " "I'm so bored today, I met a mental derangement." "I'm so tired. What are you doing?" "Does this dress look good? Is this bag cute? " "What time did you go to bed and what drama were you watching?" "It's a nice day today. It's very cold today. Put on more clothes. " "I read an article, and so did you."
These seemingly ordinary fragments of life, without a theme of casual conversation, are actually the bond between two people.
Really just because I like you, I am willing to talk nonsense with you. Willing to share those lovely and interesting things with you. There is nothing to say. You won't feel embarrassed if you don't talk together, but relax and feel each other's temperature quietly. The most comfortable and trusting state between two people is that you are eating breakfast and can remember to take a photo and send it to me. Even if I don't reply immediately, you won't worry that I won't reply to you or deliberately ignore you, because you know I won't reply only because I didn't see it, and I will definitely reply to you when I see it.
The loss of desire to share is the beginning of the end. ""The friendship and love of adults depends not on whether the other person has a second to answer you, but on whether the other person is busy and misses you. "The older I grow up, the more I realize that it is very risky to disclose my concerns to others easily." In fact, life may be ordinary or even boring, but because of that person's existence, you find that your life has become a lot more interesting, as if there were a lot of colors, and the whole person has become lively. When two people are together for a long time, they will become more and more alike and familiar, and you will gradually understand each other's little habits. When you look at each other, you can't help giggling. You may not know what you are laughing at, but you are happy. The same thing, doing it with someone you care about, feels completely different. You will find it interesting, not boring. It doesn't matter what you do, what matters is the people around you.
Experience and try all kinds of new things together, and the person around you is you. So everyone must cherish the person who is willing to share with you, and cherish the person who can't help laughing just thinking about it. This is a very precious existence. A person's life is long and short. If you meet someone who can make you desperate to take risks, and you are the one who is firmly chosen by her, it will be a rare experience regardless of the outcome.
Why has the sharing rate of some people started to decline after a long time? We always emphasize sharing, we are always communicating with each other and how important sharing is to this matter. But in fact, through sharing, we can clearly perceive each other's love. Some people think that two things can't be equated. They think that when we know each other well enough and know each other well, a lot of what we say is nonsense, and they think that this kind of nonsense is wasting two people's time. When two people are emotionally stable, they can spend more time creating a better future. At this time, it will be particularly prone to conflicts, because the party who does not want to communicate and talk about these trivial things will think that these things are unnecessary.
But for the other party, it will feel neglected and that we are not together, and then when we communicate this matter, the contradiction will become more and more fierce and the communication will be invalid. After communication, the two of us are still arguing about these things, and he hasn't changed at all. Sharing can make us truly feel love, that is, whether we are in the same place or not, no matter how far apart we are, I am with your heart, and I know that you care about me. I hope to be with you like this, so that we can get to know each other faster, and we won't worry about your inexplicable disappearance and your inexplicable tone.
The future is far away, and I love you in a thousand words, which is actually hidden in these little nonsense and trivial things. But the desire to share also needs to be answered. If you don't respond to me, I will think that my sharing is disturbing you.