Dating was just a way for men and women to get to know each other, and it was an effort made by two people to get rid of the bill. However, the development of blind date to this state has really become a purely material contest, which makes people feel very meaningless.
blind date is to find someone, not money. Blind date in real life is just the opposite.
Many people who participate in blind date want to know how much each other earns every month at the first time, whether they have a car or a house, or even when they meet for the first time, they want to find out all their ancestors for 18 generations, and then make their own decisions.
But blind date is just a meeting. Two people have never known each other much. Even if they have a good impression on each other and want to continue to develop, it is a continuous process, and it is impossible to make a decision in a short time.
When blind date has evolved into a means for parents to urge marriage, young people find it difficult to accept it ideologically. Blind date has been extremely materialistic, which makes people feel sick. In addition, blind date is not the original intention of young people themselves, but under the urging and oppression of their parents, they feel that they can't stand it.
In fact, this kind of blind date is of little significance, and it is purely for coping with parents. This also leads young people to have a heartfelt aversion to blind date, not because they may be compared, but because they don't believe that they can find the right love in blind date.
More and more young people hate blind date, selling themselves materially, and wasting more energy on the road of finding love in vain.
When love has been clearly marked, when young people's love has been naked in front of everyone, young people will certainly hate blind date. Nobody wants to be watched, and nobody wants to be a monkey in the zoo.
Find someone you like to end your single life. Only by taking off your single life can you really get rid of the fate of blind date.
For most young people, chatting with strangers does not have the same topic, so it will inevitably lead to great embarrassment and misunderstanding, so this is because they are so afraid of dating strangers.
In fact, I have to say that the reason why most young people are more resistant to blind date with strangers is that they lack necessary topics with strangers, and it is precisely because of this that they will feel uncomfortable when meeting, which will inevitably lead to great embarrassment, which will affect their image. It is precisely because of this psychological shadow that most young people are still more afraid of blind date with strangers.
It has to be said that most young people put more emphasis on individuality, and they are relatively fixed in the circle of friends and social contacts. If they are simply blind date with others, it is difficult to have the ideal effect.
In fact, it has to be said that many young people are more important in their freedom, so they will pay more attention to their actual feelings in love. Simple blind date is really too simple and rude. Most young people don't like this way of making friends, and it will inevitably cause great misunderstanding and psychological discomfort. Therefore, for various reasons, most young people really resist blind date with strangers psychologically.
Many young people do have social phobia, so it's embarrassing to meet strangers, and it's really uncomfortable to talk about emotional problems.
In fact, you will find that the values of young people are relatively free. For love, it also emphasizes love at first sight. For young people with social phobia, it will also be very uncomfortable and depressed. On the other hand, because there is no topic in common, it will increase great embarrassment. Therefore, this is because most young people are very resistant and inwardly rejected, and they emphasize finding themselves in their own way.
In fact, I have to say that many young people really hate blind date in real life. On the one hand, because of psychological factors, most young people have social phobia, so they are reluctant to associate with strangers. On the other hand, because of the lack of understanding of the target, it is inevitable that they will be embarrassed after meeting. Therefore, most young people emphasize making friends with their other half in their own way, rather than simply and rudely understanding blind date. It is precisely because of this love concept that most young people still do.