I finally understand my mother
I have always hated going to the supermarket with my mother. Either I wouldn’t let you buy snacks or stationery, or I would be stuck with money to buy things. Therefore, every time I come back from the supermarket, I feel depressed and extremely unhappy.
Finally, I couldn't bear the treatment anymore, and a war broke out. I protested loudly: "Why can't I buy snacks and stationery! Why?" My mother stood aside, silent, seeming to be thinking about something.
Since then, my treatment has remained unchanged. I vowed never to go to the supermarket again and never pay attention to a "cheapskate" like my mother. I thought to myself, why is my mother so "stingy"? Will I not even be able to go to the supermarket in the future? What will happen next? That night, I had a dream. I dreamed that my mother asked me to buy snacks. I bought a lot of delicious cookies, candies, potato chips, chocolate... But when I woke up, there was nothing.
The next day, my mother and I went to the supermarket together. I wanted to buy stationery, but my mother said: "Don't you have some in your pencil case? Pencils and erasers are almost full! You have nowhere to spend your money!" I pouted and said angrily: "I I bought a mechanical pencil. Almost everyone in the class uses that kind of pen. Why can’t I use it?” “You can only use pencils!” For some reason, I feel that my mother is very angry today. We passed by the food area and my mouth watered again. While my mother was talking to an aunt, I quietly turned into the potato chip area, got a bag of potato chips, walked quietly to my mother, and threw the potato chips into the basket at lightning speed. Mom didn't even notice! I was elated. However, when it came time to pay, I wilted and the bag of potato chips lay intact in the basket. My face turned red and I was so ashamed! My mother threw the potato chips towards me and said, "Put it back! Do you still want to buy that..." The look in my mother's eyes forced me to agree.
Once, there was a paper-cutting competition held in the school. My scissors are not flexible and I need to buy new ones, but my mother refuses to let me buy them. I was stunned for a moment and said: "Mom, competition!" "Take the one you have at home!"...
One afternoon after school, I saw a set of books "World Masters" on the desk. I turned over the book and saw that it was more than a thousand yuan. I suddenly understood something. I am so sorry for my mother!
I finally understand my mother
My mother is an ordinary woman. One of her characteristics is that she loves to nag. Every morning, my mother would call me three or four times to get up as soon as she woke up. She would yell if she was slow to eat breakfast, and she would yell if she went to bed late at night. I was tired of hearing it, but she didn't feel tired at all.
One morning, my good friend Zhao Simin came to see me. I was a little anxious, so I pushed my unfinished breakfast to the table, picked up my schoolbag and ran out. My mother grabbed me and said, "Hey! Hey! Hey! Why are you running so fast?" "Oh, mom! Don't pull me, I have to go to school!" No matter how anxious I am, I have to finish my breakfast, and I don't have enough to study. Can't learn well either. "I knew I couldn't fight my mother's nagging, so I had to finish the rest of the meal and ran out the door quickly. When I got downstairs, Zhao Simin said angrily: "Why did you come down here! I said angrily: "Not all..." At this point, Zhao Simin whispered: "Your mother is watching you upstairs!" ”
I looked up and saw that my mother was still nagging on the balcony.
Once, the class held a speech titled: My Mom. When I was giving a speech, I mentioned my mother’s nagging. My classmates in the front row turned to me and said with envy: “It’s great to have a mother, even a nagging mother. I said angrily: "What's good?" It can annoy you to death! "After two days, I don't know how these words reached my mother's ears. From then on, there was no more nagging from my mother. Although my ears were quiet, I was often late for school and often forgot to bring the things I wanted to take. At this time, I I remembered what the classmate in the front row said and savored it carefully. It turns out that my mother’s nagging is also a blessing to me.
2. You can make some suggestions to your parents, such as improving other people’s education methods, or Persuade them to change their bad habits.
Student work: Dad, stop gambling
Dad, I want to say to you: "Stop gambling!"
Dad, you are our The "backbone" of our family, our family's ability to live a happy and peaceful life depends entirely on you. I know that it is very hard for you to travel on business, and you travel to Wuxi and Anhui every three days. You also need to rest and relax. So, Mom and I allow you to go out and play cards on Saturday and Sunday. But after a few months, we regretted it. Because we found that you went out to play cards and refused to go home until late at night, and you became more and more unfamiliar with us.
I recall the time when you took us to Hongmei Park to play. There was an elderly Yangko team there. I listened to the music, danced to the chickens, and even twerked with the old ladies. You saw it and couldn't help laughing. Also, when we are at home, you lie on the ground and I ride on you, saying "drive, drive" from time to time. Also, our family went shopping together... This scene seemed to have just happened yesterday. It replayed in my mind like a movie, but it was like a bubble that was burst. That Saturday, you went out to play cards. I watched TV until eleven o'clock in the evening, but I didn't see you back yet. Unable to contain my fatigue, I fell asleep. I got up to have breakfast in the morning, and my mother asked what time you came back? You said half past six, I was stunned, half past six? That's the time I usually get up! Dad, gambling is harmful to your health. Moreover, gambling can also cause estrangement in family relationships and disagreements between husband and wife...
Dad, stop gambling!
3. Other psychological things you want to say to your parents.
Dad, I want to tell you
Dad, my good dad, you are good in everything at home, but you are not good at drinking. I hope you can stop drinking.
You are very concerned about our study, but because you often drink and get angry with your mother, we cannot study with peace of mind.
One night, it was already 12 o'clock, and the cold wind was blowing outside the window. People could not see their fingers. People were already immersed in warm sleep, but the lights in our house were still on. My sister and I Neither my brother nor my mother can go to bed, just to wait for one person - my father. We are all worried about you. Because some friends called you this morning to buy you a few drinks, saying they wanted to catch up with a good friend who has been away for many years. I think you are making excuses because you are afraid that your mother will not let you go. I didn't expect that I would be there all day long, and I must have been drunk again...
"Dudu..." A knock on the door startled me, it must have been my father coming back. Mom hurried to open the door, and I followed her. I saw two uncles helping you in, who was so drunk. They said embarrassedly: "I'm so sorry, sister-in-law, for letting him drink two more drinks." Not only did my mother not blame them, , thank them for sending you back. At this time, your face is red, the smell of wine is very strong, and you are talking nonsense. You cry sometimes and laugh sometimes, and you look quite scary. He is not at all like the amiable father he used to be. Seeing this, I want to say to you: "Quit drinking quickly, for your health and for the happiness of our whole family."
Mom, I want to say to you
Mom, I don’t know if you still remember the harm you caused to my young heart.
I remember that you bought me a puppy in order to make me feel less lonely! I called it "Little One" because it was only so small and could not grow up. I got along with "Little One" In the third year, you wanted to give it away! At that time, I was very reluctant to ask you not to give it away, but you said that I didn't think about my family, and the landlord said that dogs are not allowed here.
Mom, I want to tell you so much: It is by no means as simple as a dog, it is also my loyal playmate. Mom, do you know? The night you sent "little one" away, I I couldn't sleep. I still remember that you came home very late every night. Only me and "little one" were left at home. I was very scared and lonely there. Fortunately, "little one" was here, otherwise I wouldn't know what to do. Do it! I still remember one time when I went to the mountains to play alone. I got lost and "Little One" brought me home. How could you just send it away! Every night, I used to touch the bedside with my right hand and look at "Little One" "Have you come back? But every time I was greeted with disappointment and crying again and again! The little one was always by my side when I was watching TV, but you didn't think about me at all when you sent me away. However, all I can say is that I am selfish! How I want to say that I would rather not live here anymore than send my "little one" away!
Mom, how much I want to say to you: Every time I walk to the balcony, Seeing the rice bowl that "little one" used, tears kept flowing out! Walking through the hall, I thought of "little one" walking freely here. But now? Nothing is left, only the good memories and the use of it are left. Everything!
Mom, I want to say to you: Please consider my feelings when doing things related to me, and don’t think that what you do is necessarily correct. You know that you have hurt someone. A young and innocent heart!
Mom, what I say here is not to criticize you, but to ask you to take into account my feelings!