1, teach children the right way to make friends.
Improve children's ability. Parents encourage their children to take practical actions at school: do more good deeds, help others, especially students in need, respond to the teacher's call, take an active part in various activities, and don't be afraid that children will suffer. Remember, "give someone a rose, there is more fragrance in your hand."
2. Parents and children are empathetic.
Parents should guide their children to put themselves in others' shoes. From the other person's point of view, consider the problem from the other person's point of view and understand the reasons why the other person does things. At this time, children will find their own defects. Parents will tell their children: "If your classmates were you, would you like such a person?" Children will realize their mistakes.
3. Guide children to make friends with their peers and take them out to play.
Part of children's social ability comes from their families, and the other part is that the learning object is children of the same age. In the process of playing games with other children, he learned to abide by some rules of the children's world. When you encounter some problems, you will also learn the experience of getting along with others from children of the same age.
4. Understand the way children get along with classmates.
Learn more about the experiences of children and classmates. Help children analyze where they don't get along well with students. At the same time, parents should also know the situation from teachers and learn about their children's performance in school in many ways. Then according to the child's performance in getting along with classmates, help the child clarify the relationship and then teach the child how to face it.
5. Help children establish a correct concept of making friends.
It takes time for children to get used to it when they leave their parents for the first time and enter campus life. Parents should give their children some guidance and suggestions on how to get along with others at school.
After school, parents can ask their children about their daily life at school and help them analyze some problems in making friends. Teach children to face it correctly and don't be afraid. In the communication with classmates, knowing how to speak well and be helpful will naturally lead to some good friends.
6. Parents should face up to contradictions and not avoid problems.
Children's conflicts are mostly trivial matters in the eyes of adults. Most parents think that things are small, and they often ignore many things if they don't mention them.
In the process of children's growth, many things are not understood by children for the first time. More often, small contradictions will disturb children's good times, which is directly related to children's social skills and always gets deeply involved in communication with classmates. Serious people can lead to narrow-minded children.