In love, we all long for such a kind of love, that is, the other person is in harmony with his three views, and his soul is singing. In many cases, he can have an excellent tacit understanding, and the other person can truly understand and experience with one look and one action. This kind of partner is very difficult. Many people have spent their whole lives unable to find true love and their soul mate. In my opinion, if you want to find someone who has the same view with yourself and make your life happier, you can start from the following aspects. First, constantly improve yourself.
We want to find a person who shares our three views, and we often need to constantly improve ourselves, because we can only find an excellent person if we become more excellent. This is a very cruel reality, because you will find what kind of person you are, eager to be an excellent person, and want to have an excellent partner, then the prerequisite is that you should become equally excellent in order to attract the attention of the other party. Therefore, when you feel that you are very compatible with a person's three views, there are two possibilities. One is that you are on the same level and the three views really fit together, but another possibility is that the other person's emotional intelligence is very high and the position tells you a lot from a distance, which makes you feel that you are very suitable for the three views. Therefore, we need to constantly make ourselves more excellent in order to find such a suitable person. Second, expand your social circle.
Now there are many otaku and otaku girls, who will only indulge in the virtual world forever, and the virtual world will give them a brief pleasure, but when they return to real life, they still feel very powerless. If you want to find a suitable person, you need to expand your social circle and know more people before you have the opportunity to show yourself to others. Third, communicate with people more.
Too many people are very introverted and don't know how to communicate with others, which leads to the inability to express their ideas. The reason why two people have the same view on many things and their own life is that they have the same view. If you don't communicate, then naturally there is no way to convey your ideas to others and you can't find like-minded people.