(1), timely discovery, timely guidance: parents are the children's first teachers. If parents only pay attention to their children's material needs, ignore their psychological needs, or even disdain their children, and always treat them as children, children will feel rebellious, strange and alienated.
Loneliness, going to the society to find the answer, will inevitably go astray. In learning, we have high hopes for it. Maybe we take a rude way to suppress education, or make too many comparisons, which will cause children's depression and inferiority. At this time, parents should communicate with their children more, provide more information about the meaning of life and patiently accompany their children to grow up happily.
(2) Good guidance: Adolescent children will have various problems due to various influences. At this time, parents must be prepared. If you find that your child is contradictory, rebellious, puppy love, internet addiction, smoking, drinking, etc. Don't rush to adopt a rude and repressive education method, regard it as a normal phenomenon and regard it as a way for children to find their own growth. Parents should calmly analyze, find the right way, and help their children find the advantages and paths suitable for their growth by combining school and society.
(3) Counseling should take care of children's feelings: Adolescent children need equality, recognition and encouragement. Parents' excessive concern, arranged substitution, blind accusation and interference will call for children's resistance. At this time, if parents and children make friends on an equal footing and participate in their children's study and life as friends, it will be more conducive to guiding their children through adolescence.
(4) It is necessary to carry out sex education for teenagers: Sex education for teenagers not only plays an extremely important role in improving teenagers' healthy personality and physique, but also can effectively control the spread of sexually transmitted diseases and curb the rise of sexual crimes. Relevant experts reminded that adolescent sex education should not make a fuss, and it is best to make good use of opportunities in daily life. Provide children with appropriate sexual knowledge in a relaxed and humorous tone in front of the TV; Parents accompany their children to find good books, and then read, observe and think together to obtain more correct sexual knowledge. When children have further hobbies and puzzles, it is the best time for sex education.