1, slowly guide the children to a safe environment. Introverted children will heat up more slowly. If there is no safe range, they will be even more embarrassed. So don't worry about letting children make many friends. First create a safe environment for children and practice how to communicate with strangers at home. If the children are ready, push them out. If not, don't force them and don't compare with other children. The more so, the more nervous, cramped and atrophied the child is.

2. Create a small party for friends and colleagues to bring their children.

If children are not ready to make friends with strange children for the time being, then parents will go to the party with colleagues or friends. Many times, when children see adults making friends like this, they will imitate them invisibly. Moreover, based on the relationship between the previous generation, it is easier for the next generation to play together, because they know each other better and are not completely strangers, so they will be less psychologically alert.

3. Take more children to participate in outdoor group activities.

Under normal circumstances, it is easier for everyone to let go outdoors, especially the parent-child projects that are played together, and there will be some physical contact more or less. In this case, it is easier for children to play together through game interaction. Participate in such activities more, and then parents must spend more time at first, and it is best to participate in parent-child games. Participate in such activities more, and children will gradually let go of themselves and become more and more cheerful!

Yi Long's nine sons are different, not to mention thousands of children. Some are extroverted, eloquent and sociable, while others are introverted and shy. The children's personality is inherited and influenced by the day after tomorrow. Therefore, first of all, parents should sincerely accept the child's personality, and don't be dissatisfied with the child because the child's personality is different from what they expect, even if they hope that the child's personality will change.