Everyone has their own secrets in life, and there is always a desire to talk about them. However, in real life, it is really too difficult to find someone who can speak freely. We are always worried that our vulnerability will be punctured and that life will deviate from our expected trajectory.
When people are used to living with masks, we may have forgotten what our real selves are like. Since entering the society, everyone has been constantly changing, whether physically or psychologically, everyone has become an unknown self.
But we all have needs and are used to this life. Maybe only in the dead of night do we ask ourselves what we really want. But no one can give you the answer. Can only fall asleep in thinking, waiting for the next chance to think.
We have learned to hide our true thoughts, to face everything with indifference, and to struggle in life. As for what you look like, who cares?
It's really difficult to meet a heart-to-heart friend, and I feel the same way. It's been many years since I graduated from college, but I haven't made any new friends in these years. There are several close friends in the circle of friends who are high school classmates. They have known each other for many years, and only when we get to know each other will we really be willing to tell each other our inner secrets.
I have made many friends during this time, but I am always reluctant to tell them what I really think. Because there are too many fears in my heart, I am afraid that my secrets will be revealed and my life will be affected.
We are no longer afraid to open our hearts and let people walk into their own hearts casually, nor are we afraid to walk into other people's hearts casually.
It's hard for friends to talk to each other, and everyone is used to wearing masks to face life. It is not difficult to find a heart-to-heart friend, but the hope is really slim.
Friendship needs time to settle before it can really enter your heart, but today's friendship often cannot stand the test of time.