First, let's briefly review the incident. 2065438+01654381In the early morning of October 3, Jiangge was killed in his apartment in Nakano District, Tokyo, Japan. Many sources confirmed that Jiangge was killed because he blocked his ex-boyfriend for his cohabiting friend Liu Xin. Jiang Ge, female, 1992 was born in Qingdao, China, and is a Japanese graduate student. After the incident, I watched Weibo sent by Jiangge's mother and told the story of Jiangge from childhood to adulthood. Jiangge has been a clever and sensible child since childhood. Why does a naturally well-behaved child encounter such a big grievance? Everyone knows that she was killed to help her friends.
This case has finally entered the court trial period, which may be a comfort or a stimulus for Jiangge's mother who lost her only daughter a year ago. The late murderer has not been punished. Let's pray for this tragedy and make a strong witness for fairness!
Originally, the whole incident had nothing to do with the kind Jiangge. Why did it finally lead to tragedy? This is due to Jiangge's good friend Liu Xin, who closed the door of Jiangge's survival and gave him a fatal knife. Let's leave aside Liu Xin's behavior. We can only learn from it. How and what kind of friends should we make?
How to make friends carefully
As the old saying goes, you can't hurt others, but you can't stop others. We need to pay attention to the following points when making friends:
Narrow-minded people must not give.
Don't pay if you can't take a joke.
Competitive and unwilling to pay.
Don't pay if you are rude.
Living in luxury, those who love to borrow money and don't pay it back.
Encourage others as much as possible.
Let others save face at all times.
You should always quote other people's noble thoughts and motives.
You should try not to criticize others. When you have to criticize, you'd better take an indirect approach.
You should allow others to feel good about themselves occasionally.
When you make a mistake, apologize in time;
You should give more advice, not give orders.
When others are angry, you should show understanding.